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Long live the Republic!

2016.09.25 20:07 ANTI_HILLARY_BOT Long live the Republic!

The_George is a never-ending rally dedicated to the 1st President of the United States, George Washington.
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2011.07.06 16:48 onewatt Southern Utah

A subreddit for anything having to do with the better half of Utah.
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2013.01.02 07:07 the_psycho St George Illawarra Dragons (NRL)

The St George Illawarra Dragons is a team that plays in the National Rugby League in Australia. Get the Latest news and updates for the NRL St George Illawarra Dragons. A place for us dragons fans to have a chat about our team.
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2023.03.22 17:10 Nitronite01 Need help on work/energy

Need help on work/energy
Need help understanding part d. How is this girl able to generate such an absurd amount of force from that distance? Letter meanings for reference: Ug= potential energy, mg= mass*gravity(gravity is rounded to 10), W= work, J = Joules, N = newtons, FII= parallel force, V= velocity, K= kinetic energy.
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2023.03.22 17:08 ughneedausername Don’t know who wrote this but it’s fantastic

Sing it to the beat of "We Didn't Start The Fire"
Debbie Gibson, Motley Crue, Max Headroom, Scooby Doo, Jon Bon Jovi, Teddy Ruxpin, Reagan sheds a tear
Transformers, Silver Spoons, 99 Red Balloons, Mork & Mindy, Muppet Babies, Mr. Belvedere
Ghostbusters, China Beach, Blair and Tootie, Zach and Screech, Michael Milkin broke the law, Madonna wore a pointy bra
Knight Rider, G.I. Joe, Stay In School, Just Say No, Tiffany, Lean On Me, Mr. Furley, Mr. T
We didn’t start the 80s, they were burnin’ strong since we gave up Pong We didn’t start the 80s, we were drivin’ Yugos and we loved Menudo
Miami Vice, Andrew Dice, Bobby Bland, Vanilla Ice, Donkey Kong, Pac-man, Contra scandal in Iran Rubik’s Cube, Bill & Ted, Ferris Buehler, sick in bed, Ayatollah tried to kill us — “What you talkin’ ’bout, Willis?”
Punk rockers, Jimmy Walker, Noriega, Night Stalker, Boy George, Woody Boyd, Where’s The Beef, Avoid The Noid New Kids On The Block, Smurf, Snorks, Fraggle Rock, Cosby Show, Alf & Fame, Corey Feldman, Corey Haim
We didn’t start the 80s, we had Bird and Magic and Inspector Gadget We didn’t start the 80s, Gary Hart’s romancin’ and we loved break dancin’
McDLT, Double Whopper, Billy Idol, Cyndi Lauper, Soviet Union in a frenzy, Punky Brewster, Spuds MacKenzie A-Team and Top Gun, Salman Rushdie on the run, Pop Rocks, Brat Pack, Michael Jackson was still black
Kirk Cameron, Donald Trump, John Travolta’s ten-year slump, ThunderCats, Mighty Mouse, Pee-Wee Herman’s crazy house Flashdance, Footloose, John Belushi’s drug abuse, Swatch watch, Lite-Brite, Oprah had an appetite
He-Man, Care Bears, rippin’ jeans, crimpin’ hair, Who’s The Boss, Growing Pains, Ricky Schroeder’s choo-choo train Dukes of Hazzard, Rocky IV, Exxon oil washed ashore, Alvin, Simon, Theodore, I can’t take it anymore
We didn’t start the 80s, we had Mony, Mony and My Little Pony We didn’t start the 80s, though we always diss ‘em and you gotta miss ‘em…
Edit: I did not write this.
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2023.03.22 17:08 Xerxesbruh I need work advice

Okay so, I'm a schitzo. Started seeing delusions around 10-12 to 20(begged god for help and haven't seen any demons since) had a relatively alright year, Disassociated with emotions 1 year it was great and then age 23 to currently 26 started hearing voices. The only time I can't use logic to figure out whether or not I'm hearing voices or hearing people speaking out loud is when I'm in the grocery store or outside, i cant work inside very well, I've come to the conclusion that I should possibly just treat the voices the same way I should treat people talking at a distance, which is just kind-of ignore them because it's none of my business right?
That being said How do people like, focus so hard on their current task that they can't hear people talking shit about them to each other from a distance and if you do hear it, how do you handle it? Because no matter how much you lay your dick on the table somebody is always going to try proving theirs is bigger, personally, I don't want to go to jail for fighting idiots. And I'd really like to not give a shit about what people are saying because it honestly fucks up my day to have conflicts and confrontations with people whether they're voices or real people.
Ps i take my meds and see a therapist. But the meds dont work and the therapists arent trying as hard as i am to come up with solutions and more positive behaviors and correcting bad habits. I just need to be able to work again without the possibility of getting in trouble or fired. I have done everything to do with building a house except actual carpentry findin a jobs not hard. Not having a silent meltdown for 6 hours unable to tell if everyone around you is trying to Make you fight them while you're sitting there like 'everything is fine except my heartbeat and frustration' that's all I can do. Otherwise I would go to jail for punching someone that never said a word
Any advice might help,
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2023.03.22 17:08 XxBlossom04xX My boyfriend asked me what my cup size is

I (18 yo female) and my boyfriend (18 yo male) are in a long distance relationship and have been together for about 6 months. We are not intimate because we’re Christians and both decided before meeting each other to wait until marriage to lose our virginity. We’re pretty comfortable talking to each other about most sexual and personal topics, but last night we were asking each other random questions and he asked me what my cup size is. I didn’t tell him and even though we were both laughing it made me pretty uncomfortable tbh. Should I be uncomfortable or is it no big deal at all? Some people say that to ask that question is disrespectful and rude, while others say it’s totally normal
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2023.03.22 17:08 Paan1k QuadTree, R-Tree or other for my PDF parsing problem

Hello, happy to join this sub! I'm parsing PDF in Python (with pdfminer.six, if you want to know) and I'm getting text (with bounding boxes), lines and rectangles.
Now, I am asking myself (and actually asking you) which library (and thus, algorithm) is better if I want to create a spatial index to speed up the following operations:
So, for all of these usecases, which library (or library combination) is better ? Or maybe a simple spatial hash ? For now, my implementation is to loop over the elements and put them in a dictionary of all known positions and one "other" field, and I separated text and shapes because of the "closest text element" problem. Would a spatial structure be beneficial in my case ?
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2023.03.22 17:07 Lazlo652 If an object at rest has force applied to it, is there a delay in the movement of the object along the axis force was applied, relative to the distance from the initial force, and does it follow the speed limit of light?

For example, I’m holding a steel rod 299,792,458 meters long. I apply a force to it by moving my hand. Will it necessarily take more than 1 second for the opposite end of then rod to move?
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2023.03.22 17:07 SystemInvecklare Trail Mix - Snapshot 23w12a Is Out!

Well hello fellow Minecraft lovers! It is time for the first snapshot for 1.20. We know we promised no more major features, so how did we end up with such a big snapshot? You thought the trails were over? NO! In snapshot 23w12a we have even more tales to tell! Our devs apparently could not resist throwing in a few extra additions. Enjoy!
This update can also be found on minecraft.net.
If you find any bugs, please report them on the official Minecraft Issue Tracker. For any feedback and suggestions on our upcoming 1.20 features, head over to the dedicated Feedback site category.

New Features

Vibration Resonance

Calibrated Sculk Sensors

Archaeology

Armor Trims

New armor trim Smithing Templates have been added to the following structures:

Signs

Sniffer Egg

Pitcher Plant

Changes

Vibration Frequencies

In preparation for the Calibrated Sculk Sensor, vibration frequencies have been greatly simplified to prevent unwanted interference. The following are category descriptions for each frequency and the expected events that they correspond to:
  1. Movement in any medium (land, water and air)
  2. Landing on any surface (land or water)
  3. Item interactions
  4. Gliding with an elytra or unique mob actions (Ravager roar, Wolf shaking, etc)
  5. Dismounting a mob or equipping gear
  6. Mounting a mob or interacting with a mob
  7. Mobs and players getting damaged
  8. Consuming items (drinking and eating)
  9. Blocks 'deactivating' (door close, chest close, button unpress, etc)
  10. Blocks 'activating' (door open, chest open, button press, etc)
  11. Blocks changing (cauldron water level rising, adding food to campfire, etc)
  12. Blocks being destroyed
  13. Blocks being placed
  14. Mobs and players teleporting or spawning
  15. Mobs and players dying or an explosion

Combination Step Sounds

Armor Trims

Technical Changes

Structure post-processors

Capped post-processor

Rule post-processor block entity configuration

Game Events

Tags

Step Sounds

Display entity

Interpolation changes

Fixed bugs in Snapshot 23w12a

Get the Snapshot

Snapshots are available for Minecraft Java Edition. To install the Snapshot, open up the Minecraft Launcher and enable snapshots in the "Installations" tab.
Testing versions can corrupt your world, please backup and/or run them in a different folder from your main worlds.
Cross-platform server jar:

What else is new?

For previous changes for Minecraft 1.19.4 and new features for Minecraft 1.20, see the previous release post. Read more about the changes in the Wild update in the release post
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2023.03.22 17:07 SystemInvecklare Trail Mix - Snapshot 23w12a Is Out!

Well hello fellow Minecraft lovers! It is time for the first snapshot for 1.20. We know we promised no more major features, so how did we end up with such a big snapshot? You thought the trails were over? NO! In snapshot 23w12a we have even more tales to tell! Our devs apparently could not resist throwing in a few extra additions. Enjoy!
This update can also be found on minecraft.net.
If you find any bugs, please report them on the official Minecraft Issue Tracker. For any feedback and suggestions on our upcoming 1.20 features, head over to the dedicated Feedback site category.

New Features

Vibration Resonance

Calibrated Sculk Sensors

Archaeology

Armor Trims

New armor trim Smithing Templates have been added to the following structures:

Signs

Sniffer Egg

Pitcher Plant

Changes

Vibration Frequencies

In preparation for the Calibrated Sculk Sensor, vibration frequencies have been greatly simplified to prevent unwanted interference. The following are category descriptions for each frequency and the expected events that they correspond to:
  1. Movement in any medium (land, water and air)
  2. Landing on any surface (land or water)
  3. Item interactions
  4. Gliding with an elytra or unique mob actions (Ravager roar, Wolf shaking, etc)
  5. Dismounting a mob or equipping gear
  6. Mounting a mob or interacting with a mob
  7. Mobs and players getting damaged
  8. Consuming items (drinking and eating)
  9. Blocks 'deactivating' (door close, chest close, button unpress, etc)
  10. Blocks 'activating' (door open, chest open, button press, etc)
  11. Blocks changing (cauldron water level rising, adding food to campfire, etc)
  12. Blocks being destroyed
  13. Blocks being placed
  14. Mobs and players teleporting or spawning
  15. Mobs and players dying or an explosion

Combination Step Sounds

Armor Trims

Technical Changes

Structure post-processors

Capped post-processor

Rule post-processor block entity configuration

Game Events

Tags

Step Sounds

Display entity

Interpolation changes

Fixed bugs in Snapshot 23w12a

Get the Snapshot

Snapshots are available for Minecraft Java Edition. To install the Snapshot, open up the Minecraft Launcher and enable snapshots in the "Installations" tab.
Testing versions can corrupt your world, please backup and/or run them in a different folder from your main worlds.
Cross-platform server jar:

What else is new?

For previous changes for Minecraft 1.19.4 and new features for Minecraft 1.20, see the previous release post. Read more about the changes in the Wild update in the release post
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2023.03.22 17:07 DirtyHow [H] ST FN Aug Wings w/ 1x iBuyPower Katowice 14 [W] 700 RMB offer

[H] ST FN Aug Wings w/ iBuyPower Katowice 2014 b/o 700 RMB in CSGO items
The sticker is unscratched, not holo, and in the second-best position for Katos on an AUG.
Screenshot
In-game screenshot

Additionally, I would like to upgrade with other play skins in my inventory to an FN ST Talon Tiger Tooth, FN ST Talon Doppler, or FT Driver Gloves Imperial Plaid.
[H] FT Driver Gloves Overtake
[H] ST Talon Vanilla

Thank you! Feel free to send an offer for this beautiful iBP Katowice 2014 craft!
Inventory: https://steamcommunity.com/id/dirtyhow/inventory/#730
TL: https://steamcommunity.com/tradeoffenew/?partner=230322358&token=T-ZPeBWQ
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2023.03.22 17:06 blackcarrides123 Car Service in Boston

Black Car Service in Boston to NYC car service will always provide a comfortable ride while offering a long distance transport service from Boston to New York
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2023.03.22 17:04 Nymlol Is my [28M] girlfriend [21F] depressed or manipulative or both

My girlfriend (21) of more than a year and I (28) are having issues in our relationship. From what she is saying, she is suffering from depression for a long time already, perhaps there are even more mental disorders (borderline?). Yet, for now these illnesses have not yet been diagnosed by a professional. She just recently started going to one. They had 4 appointments yet no diagnosis yet, or so she says (Is this normal?). She says he’s just mostly listens to her. He did give her pills, which she is taking.
We met online two years ago and it took a year for her to reveal her feelings for me. I told her that I can’t do long distance relationships and that if she’s serious about this, she will have to move to my country after a bit of time. It didn’t take her long before moving in with me. For a year everything seemed perfect. Even though she was telling me during this year, how rough her childhood was. How much abuse in the family there was. How many times she was bullied at school. How she was cutting herself and also had suicidal thoughts before our relationship. She did say those things, but I’ve never really seen the negative effects of this. She was still cheerful and affectionate around me. Our conversations were going very well. A lot of intimate evenings and even mornings. We had a joyful year. Sure, she didn’t always want to go out. Or didn’t always vibe with some people around us. But the thing is, I personally, never seen how bad the situation is because of her mental illness. She never showed it to me. Or maybe I’m just blind and ignorant. Though I don’t think so because recently she said how she wasn’t truly herself in that year. She thinks nobody will like her if she’s herself. To me this is unfair.
We did have some small arguments from time to time during this year, but to me, these didn’t seem all that serious. I always said how we’ll get through whatever we’re dealing with and that everything will be ok. That I love her. I always tried to stay positive. Never scream at her or hurt her (atleast not intentionally, through words. Never physical). Though I am more of a direct person, maybe I’m also not the best with being careful with my words. I try to describe them exactly as they are.
I work 8-9 hours a day, while I also go get groceries after work. She works 3-6 hours a day as a cleaning lady (sometimes she has days off cuz no work). I also pay for transport and for the food when we go out, always. She never even asked to pay for it once. She does split the rent half half. Because of me working more and paying more. I was kinda expecting her to make dinner for me. Like a giving and taking situation. More often than not. Sometimes she did say she didn’t feel like doing it so I would bring takeout, or make it myself after work.
So this is where the big problem started. It was around 2 weeks ago. I was at work and she called me saying how she doesn’t feel like making dinner. That she will herself go outside to buy food, IF she’s not ingame. (She plays a lot of video games). After I was done with work, I messaged her that I’m going to go get groceries. She instantly responded that she’s still ingame. I came home after 1 hour and asked if she got food. To which she just calmly responded with No. I was a little annoyed because her game rounds don’t last for one hour. And she said she will get food if she’s not ingame anymore. So I told her that she said she will go get food after her game. But she didn’t. She didn’t keep her word. That it feels dishonest. Part of my annoyance is that there were instances before where I come home after a long day at work, have to go get takeout and bring it to her while she just plays video games all day and laughs with her friends. It gives me a bad feeling. It gives me a feeling of being used. To be honest I think I am more sensitive to this because I feel like most of my life people were trying to take advantage of me.
So still during this call where I said this feels dishonest, I said I am not going to go get takeout. I am going to make myself dinner. Would you like something to eat? To which she replied that she doesn’t. After I ate, she came downstairs and gave me this “negative” look. Didn’t ask how my day went, nothing. She looked hurt. I asked her where she’s going. To the Psychiatrist. I asked her if she wants a ride. To which she said yes. On the way there we didn’t speak. I didn’t really like her attitude. I don’t think I did something wrong. After dropping her off and her counselling. She just messaged me “come get me”. I did. She started speaking a bit more normal to me. And she herself started the topic of our issue. How it was very hurtful to her to hear me call her a dishonest person. Even though I didn’t call her names. I just said it feels dishonest. We were back and forth arguing about it. She got a breakdown. Started crying. Went to bed. I started making myself another meal, thought I’d give her space. This might’ve been a mistake, because she did tell me once or twice that when she’s having a breakdown, the best thing I can do is cuddle her. I forgot about this, thought space would do her good.
Next day during my work, I messaged her saying that I’m going to go out with my friend. It was a Friday. I came from work, had to make dinner myself again. She was sleeping when I arrived, even though my sister said she heard her laughing a lot that day (my sister was in the house, another room). Could it be that when it was time to make dinner, she just thought she’ll go to bed so she won’t have to make it? When I went to our floor, she was still sleeping so I went on my PC to kill time. It was almost time for me to go with my friend and then suddenly she wakes up and comes to me. Looking all sad like, barely saying anything. Could barely answer my questions. Kept hugging me. She wanted to try to workout our issue I think. Talk about it. But I said I can’t right now. I told my friend I’d be there at a specific time and I keep my word. That we will talk later. So I went downstairs to make food. I didn’t tell her I was going to make food first. (it’s 3 floors). Before leaving the house, I hear her talking and laughing loudly. I got pissed off because she could barely talk to me, was all sad like. And suddenly she can talk and laugh. This is so weird to me when you say you’re depressed and feel very sad. This instant switch. Feels manipulative to me. Though again, I never had depression, barely know anything about depression. I did talk to her once about it. How she’s all sad to me but can laugh with her friends. She said she was putting on a mask.
I left and stayed until 6 AM at my friend’s place. I felt like shit for two days. Couldn’t concentrate at work and hearing her laugh when I was leaving also pissed me off. I didn’t really feel like coming back that quick. I was having fun with my friend. Charging up my batteries. I guess I needed some space to relax. When I came home she was being cute. Asking if I had fun etc. I didn’t feel good about our situation and I’m not just gonna ignore that I stayed with my friend until 6 AM. I told her why I stayed this late. That I didn’t really feel like coming back. While I was out, she was having a super heavy breakdown she says. That she can’t believe I left her. That I hurt her a lot. That something broke inside of her. We had a talk about this the next day. That this all happened because of my comment on her wrongdoing. She said she was going to do something and she didn’t. She could’ve told me that she changed her mind, say something, but she didn’t. I told her calmly, that it’s not ok. And how she reacted to this situation, escalated this whole thing. That she started to turn herself into a victim, even though I just commented on something I thought was not ok. After a while of discussion she agreed that she was being toxic to me. Acting a lot like her toxic mom. That she was playing the victim and that she’s sorry. After she said that, I relaxed because admitting to a mistake is a good thing. I hugged her and said that it’s going to be alright, that I love her and that we’ll get through this.
Next week she started this topic again. It felt like she was still holding resentment that I didn’t say sorry for making her feel like that. That I left her while she’s having the worst breakdown of her life. Even though, I didn’t. That day she just woke up, wanted to talk about our issue and I said that I can’t because I have plans with my friend and I keep my word. I didn’t know she’s having the worst breakdown of her life. She also didn’t try to call me or message me about it. We didn’t talk for long because I was busy with something. Next thing in bed, we start talking again and by that time I have already read like 20 articles about depression. It said how you should be more supportive. More like a caretaker. That she won’t have the energy to do some chores etc. That I should help out. That words can be very hurtful because her mind is already filled with negativity. So during our bed talk I said that I was sorry that I made her feel like that. That I could’ve just dropped the thing and got the food myself. That I’m reading about depression and will do better. That I won’t pester her about the dishes not being taken downstairs.
That’s when she dropped a bomb on me. She started talking about how much I hurt her. That she’s back into hurting herself (she had scratch marks on her upper left chest side). That she’s really not ok. That she’s tired of me not understanding her condition. That I left her while she was having the worst breakdown of her life. That I wasn’t there for her. That she hates this country and the people in it. That she hates her job. That she thinks she’s going to go back to her country to get space for an unknown amount of time.
I broke down in that moment. I just apologized for my ignorance about depression. How I’m reading about it and trying to improve. How often I said that I’m not going to give up and that we’ll get through this. Also after a year of her saying how important I am to her. How I am the only one that gives her a reason to live. How she wants to marry me and have kids with me. How affectionate she was to me. That before me she was going to either attempt suicide or give up on relationships. After all that, she’s just going to go back to her country to pretty much take a break from me? Probably that would also lead to a breakup, because it most often does.
I started talking about all that, how this doesn’t make sense. How do you go from 1 year of this talking, into thinking about taking a break after 2 weeks of having issues. Where I also showed the will to change and improve the situation. It just doesn’t make sense. I cried.
After a bit she said she won’t be leaving to her country. Which shocked me even more to be fair. This decision to leave my country to go back to hers is a big step that is supposed to be very thought through. To suddenly change decisions and make excuses that she won’t go made me feel even more like shit. It’s like playing with my emotions. I told her it was fu**ed up.
Since that night she’s being all cute with me, hugging, kissing, trying to have an intimate time (trying because I said no).
My gut says she is dishonest and trying to manipulate me. My logical reason doesn’t let me fall into jumping to these conclusions because I don’t understand depression. So I will give this more time. See what the psychiatrist diagnoses in her and see how it goes. I am very worried about our future.
tl;dr I'm not sure if I'm correct in my situation or more supportive because of my girlfriend's condition.
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2023.03.22 17:04 Ambailey11807 Successful cover songs

Welcome back to Country Music 4 Ever! In 2013, Cassadee Pope released her debut single "Wasting All These Tears." The song peaked at number ten on the country airplay chart. Now this song is being released again to the radio, but not by Cassadee. A man named Austin Snell is releasing a cover of this song to the radio. If you listen to "The Highway" on Sirius XM, I'm sure you've heard this version of this song. I think he has a really good voice and this song is a perfect fit for his voice. Over the years, there have been other songs that were covered by another artist, and the cover was more successful than the original version of the song. Today I am going to talk about a couple of them.
The first song I am going to talk about is "Tennessee Whiskey." This song was originally sung by David Allen Coe. David's version only made it to number 77 on the chart. This song was later recorded by George Jones, which was the most successful version of the song. George's version made it to number two on the chart. This song was recently recorded by Chris Stapleton, but his version only made it to number 57.
The next song is "Fancy." This song was originally recorded by Bobbi Gentry. Bobbi's version made it to number 26 on the chart. This song was later recorded by Reba McEntire. Reba's version made it to number eight on the chart.
The last song I want to talk about is "Amarillo By Morning." This song was originally recorded by Terry Stafford. Terry's version made it to number 31 on the chart. This song was later recorded by George Strait. George's version made it to number four on the chart.
Thanks for reading. I'll be back soon!
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2023.03.22 17:04 user246801357 3/22/23

My heart hurts. I’ve been crying all morning and need to remember why I keep going.
I’m grateful for my able body, my therapist, my room, my bike, local cafes, journals, dogs, my long-distance friend’s phone calls, music, and guitar.
Gosh, I often feel hatred toward my life, past, and self. I’ve been unhappy for so long, but I’m still hopeful things could get better. I’ve been trying.
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2023.03.22 17:03 Nymlol Is my [28M] girlfriend [21F] depressed or manipulative or both

My girlfriend (21) of more than a year and I (28) are having issues in our relationship. From what she is saying, she is suffering from depression for a long time already, perhaps there are even more mental disorders (borderline?). Yet, for now these illnesses have not yet been diagnosed by a professional. She just recently started going to one. They had 4 appointments yet no diagnosis yet, or so she says (Is this normal?). She says he’s just mostly listens to her. He did give her pills, which she is taking.
We met online two years ago and it took a year for her to reveal her feelings for me. I told her that I can’t do long distance relationships and that if she’s serious about this, she will have to move to my country after a bit of time. It didn’t take her long before moving in with me. For a year everything seemed perfect. Even though she was telling me during this year, how rough her childhood was. How much abuse in the family there was. How many times she was bullied at school. How she was cutting herself and also had suicidal thoughts before our relationship. She did say those things, but I’ve never really seen the negative effects of this. She was still cheerful and affectionate around me. Our conversations were going very well. A lot of intimate evenings and even mornings. We had a joyful year. Sure, she didn’t always want to go out. Or didn’t always vibe with some people around us. But the thing is, I personally, never seen how bad the situation is because of her mental illness. She never showed it to me. Or maybe I’m just blind and ignorant. Though I don’t think so because recently she said how she wasn’t truly herself in that year. She thinks nobody will like her if she’s herself. To me this is unfair.
We did have some small arguments from time to time during this year, but to me, these didn’t seem all that serious. I always said how we’ll get through whatever we’re dealing with and that everything will be ok. That I love her. I always tried to stay positive. Never scream at her or hurt her (atleast not intentionally, through words. Never physical). Though I am more of a direct person, maybe I’m also not the best with being careful with my words. I try to describe them exactly as they are.
I work 8-9 hours a day, while I also go get groceries after work. She works 3-6 hours a day as a cleaning lady (sometimes she has days off cuz no work). I also pay for transport and for the food when we go out, always. She never even asked to pay for it once. She does split the rent half half. Because of me working more and paying more. I was kinda expecting her to make dinner for me. Like a giving and taking situation. More often than not. Sometimes she did say she didn’t feel like doing it so I would bring takeout, or make it myself after work.
So this is where the big problem started. It was around 2 weeks ago. I was at work and she called me saying how she doesn’t feel like making dinner. That she will herself go outside to buy food, IF she’s not ingame. (She plays a lot of video games). After I was done with work, I messaged her that I’m going to go get groceries. She instantly responded that she’s still ingame. I came home after 1 hour and asked if she got food. To which she just calmly responded with No. I was a little annoyed because her game rounds don’t last for one hour. And she said she will get food if she’s not ingame anymore. So I told her that she said she will go get food after her game. But she didn’t. She didn’t keep her word. That it feels dishonest. Part of my annoyance is that there were instances before where I come home after a long day at work, have to go get takeout and bring it to her while she just plays video games all day and laughs with her friends. It gives me a bad feeling. It gives me a feeling of being used. To be honest I think I am more sensitive to this because I feel like most of my life people were trying to take advantage of me.
So still during this call where I said this feels dishonest, I said I am not going to go get takeout. I am going to make myself dinner. Would you like something to eat? To which she replied that she doesn’t. After I ate, she came downstairs and gave me this “negative” look. Didn’t ask how my day went, nothing. She looked hurt. I asked her where she’s going. To the Psychiatrist. I asked her if she wants a ride. To which she said yes. On the way there we didn’t speak. I didn’t really like her attitude. I don’t think I did something wrong. After dropping her off and her counselling. She just messaged me “come get me”. I did. She started speaking a bit more normal to me. And she herself started the topic of our issue. How it was very hurtful to her to hear me call her a dishonest person. Even though I didn’t call her names. I just said it feels dishonest. We were back and forth arguing about it. She got a breakdown. Started crying. Went to bed. I started making myself another meal, thought I’d give her space. This might’ve been a mistake, because she did tell me once or twice that when she’s having a breakdown, the best thing I can do is cuddle her. I forgot about this, thought space would do her good.
Next day during my work, I messaged her saying that I’m going to go out with my friend. It was a Friday. I came from work, had to make dinner myself again. She was sleeping when I arrived, even though my sister said she heard her laughing a lot that day (my sister was in the house, another room). Could it be that when it was time to make dinner, she just thought she’ll go to bed so she won’t have to make it? When I went to our floor, she was still sleeping so I went on my PC to kill time. It was almost time for me to go with my friend and then suddenly she wakes up and comes to me. Looking all sad like, barely saying anything. Could barely answer my questions. Kept hugging me. She wanted to try to workout our issue I think. Talk about it. But I said I can’t right now. I told my friend I’d be there at a specific time and I keep my word. That we will talk later. So I went downstairs to make food. I didn’t tell her I was going to make food first. (it’s 3 floors). Before leaving the house, I hear her talking and laughing loudly. I got pissed off because she could barely talk to me, was all sad like. And suddenly she can talk and laugh. This is so weird to me when you say you’re depressed and feel very sad. This instant switch. Feels manipulative to me. Though again, I never had depression, barely know anything about depression. I did talk to her once about it. How she’s all sad to me but can laugh with her friends. She said she was putting on a mask.
I left and stayed until 6 AM at my friend’s place. I felt like shit for two days. Couldn’t concentrate at work and hearing her laugh when I was leaving also pissed me off. I didn’t really feel like coming back that quick. I was having fun with my friend. Charging up my batteries. I guess I needed some space to relax. When I came home she was being cute. Asking if I had fun etc. I didn’t feel good about our situation and I’m not just gonna ignore that I stayed with my friend until 6 AM. I told her why I stayed this late. That I didn’t really feel like coming back. While I was out, she was having a super heavy breakdown she says. That she can’t believe I left her. That I hurt her a lot. That something broke inside of her. We had a talk about this the next day. That this all happened because of my comment on her wrongdoing. She said she was going to do something and she didn’t. She could’ve told me that she changed her mind, say something, but she didn’t. I told her calmly, that it’s not ok. And how she reacted to this situation, escalated this whole thing. That she started to turn herself into a victim, even though I just commented on something I thought was not ok. After a while of discussion she agreed that she was being toxic to me. Acting a lot like her toxic mom. That she was playing the victim and that she’s sorry. After she said that, I relaxed because admitting to a mistake is a good thing. I hugged her and said that it’s going to be alright, that I love her and that we’ll get through this.
Next week she started this topic again. It felt like she was still holding resentment that I didn’t say sorry for making her feel like that. That I left her while she’s having the worst breakdown of her life. Even though, I didn’t. That day she just woke up, wanted to talk about our issue and I said that I can’t because I have plans with my friend and I keep my word. I didn’t know she’s having the worst breakdown of her life. She also didn’t try to call me or message me about it. We didn’t talk for long because I was busy with something. Next thing in bed, we start talking again and by that time I have already read like 20 articles about depression. It said how you should be more supportive. More like a caretaker. That she won’t have the energy to do some chores etc. That I should help out. That words can be very hurtful because her mind is already filled with negativity. So during our bed talk I said that I was sorry that I made her feel like that. That I could’ve just dropped the thing and got the food myself. That I’m reading about depression and will do better. That I won’t pester her about the dishes not being taken downstairs.
That’s when she dropped a bomb on me. She started talking about how much I hurt her. That she’s back into hurting herself (she had scratch marks on her upper left chest side). That she’s really not ok. That she’s tired of me not understanding her condition. That I left her while she was having the worst breakdown of her life. That I wasn’t there for her. That she hates this country and the people in it. That she hates her job. That she thinks she’s going to go back to her country to get space for an unknown amount of time.
I broke down in that moment. I just apologized for my ignorance about depression. How I’m reading about it and trying to improve. How often I said that I’m not going to give up and that we’ll get through this. Also after a year of her saying how important I am to her. How I am the only one that gives her a reason to live. How she wants to marry me and have kids with me. How affectionate she was to me. That before me she was going to either attempt suicide or give up on relationships. After all that, she’s just going to go back to her country to pretty much take a break from me? Probably that would also lead to a breakup, because it most often does.
I started talking about all that, how this doesn’t make sense. How do you go from 1 year of this talking, into thinking about taking a break after 2 weeks of having issues. Where I also showed the will to change and improve the situation. It just doesn’t make sense. I cried.
After a bit she said she won’t be leaving to her country. Which shocked me even more to be fair. This decision to leave my country to go back to hers is a big step that is supposed to be very thought through. To suddenly change decisions and make excuses that she won’t go made me feel even more like shit. It’s like playing with my emotions. I told her it was fu**ed up.
Since that night she’s being all cute with me, hugging, kissing, trying to have an intimate time (trying because I said no).
My gut says she is dishonest and trying to manipulate me. My logical reason doesn’t let me fall into jumping to these conclusions because I don’t understand depression. So I will give this more time. See what the psychiatrist diagnoses in her and see how it goes. I am very worried about our future.
tl;dr I'm not sure if I'm correct in my situation or more supportive because of my girlfriend's condition.
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2023.03.22 17:03 CuteExample Should I send him this?

Should I send him this?
Long post again…
He hurt me pretty badly. I miss what we had but I I don’t feel the urge to write him or be in contact with him. We weren’t official. He wasn’t ready, but what he did hurt me deeply.
Context: He left me hanging for 2 weeks after we had a conversation about the future of our relationship: go our separate ways or become officially Bf/gf. We’d had similar conversations before, but he always stopped short of going the next step. Because of that I had already ended things with him twice before. It was left up in the air again but with the understanding we'd continue the conversation later on, because this time we were no longer long distance (USA-Germany). This time, I had found a job and had moved to Germany.
Well, he ghosted me, leaving me to wonder why he had disappeared. Turns out, instead of letting me know what’s up, he pursued other women—smiling for influencers on Instagram. Then I stumbled upon a post of his in a Facebook neighborhood group where he was trying to find a girl he had seen walk by while his workplace. He made this post during the 2 weeks ghosting period. I confronted him with it by taking a screenshot of it, texting it to him and dying thank you for your honesty. Then I blocked him.
He wrote a letter to explain himself, but it was full of justifications and lacked any kind of awareness and ownership for the hurt he had caused. Basically, he didn’t betray me. I was the last woman he had kissed, we weren’t officially together, he’s Not hopelessly in love with me, he has a clear conscience, plus the usual about his fear of this, that and the other, not having time for a relationship, not being sure where it would lead and not knowing if “that something that’s missing” boils down to him or me. Ok, but where was this letter in the days that followed our last talk? I responded by stating what had hurt me—him leaving me hanging for 2 weeks, fully aware of his realization and not telling me; leaving me to discover the reason behind his pulling away on my own. I then went no contact until December. We saw each other twice in December in group settings, because I’m “friends” with his friends and they invited me. I thought this would be an opportunity for him to apologize in person. Zilch. Nothing happened. Instead, contact was reinitiated without him ever mentioning what had happened and that bothered me. I started taking distance, but every now end then, he’d pop up randomly every few weeks or so with low effort texts, and it would irritate me, because I don’t don’t want to cultivate a friendship with him or any former relationship. I don’t believe in that and he knows where I stand with that topic.
In January, after he’d sent me a follow request on Instagram after +-2 weeks or our contact dying down, I was irritated and called him but kept my composure. I told him that it bothered me that contact was reinitiated and we’d seen each other twice without having a conversation about the obvious. It’s like it never happened. He didn’t seem to understand why the topic should be broached as everything had already been addressed in our letters to each other. In the end I told him via text I was done with going through the same cycle and patterns—same problem, different day. I didn’t want to have to explain my pain all over again nor have to beg for an apology. I said we should use this experience to learn from it. This was my way of peacing out and moving on. He then responded by saying everything has been said—that last (incomplete) conversation last summer and our letters. He holds our memories in high esteem, but said he’s staying single for now. (No one asked him about that, but ok). Well the context less popping up with random texts every few weeks or so didn’t stop. This time I hadn’t blocked him anywhere, he could still see my stories or just text for no reason.
This past weekend, he texted to comment on my profile pic on WhatsApp. I ignored it. Te next day, he messaged me to ask if I could write a Google review for his art, the earrings he made me. I said ok, I’ll do it. I haven’t. I was busy crafting this letter. What do you think? Sorry if the wording sounds odd. I wrote it in German (he’s German) then translated in English on Deepl to share with you.
Independent from what happened last summer, which hurt me a lot, due to our history, I don't want to maintain a friendship. I do not think much of friendships after dating, with exes, etc. For me it is enough to part respectfully and on good terms.
Despite everything, I continued interacting with you in a positive way, to give you the opportunity to start a conversation at any time; i.e. "the way I dealt with things wasn’t right.....", without justification and done. Discussing single status had nothing to do with it.
It was important for me, to know and hear that you understood. Precisely because, according to your letter, you were apparently unaware of any wrongdoing or hurt. And precisely because the last letter came from me. In it I described exactly what had hurt me—you disappearing for 2 weeks without clueing me in after our conversation that stayed up in the air- and what followed. Even in our last phone conversation, I noticed that you didn't think it was necessary or important to address it in person to clear things up. After that, I didn't see the point of having to explain the obvious. Hence my message of January.
Since there was no dialogue after the December reunion and beyond, and messages from you arrive from time to time, I do have to express it. Not addressing it would continue to understate and normalize the behavior of last summer and the handling of this issue when this was anything but normal, respectful and considerate.
Since no dialogue ever took place when contact was reinitiated or upon seeing each other again in December, and because you check in from time to time for whatever reason, I had to express it after all. Not addressing the issue would normalize, trivialize this behavior when it is anything but normal, respectful or considerate.”
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2023.03.22 17:02 Electrical_Ad_3214 My (23M) gf (22F) love bombed for months then blocked me yesterday and said she’s done.

I’m at a loss. Is this common in relationships? We hit it off really well at the start and dated for about 5 months. Everything was seemingly perfect. She came across as smart, considerate, sweet. She’s a babysitter to these two sweet kids that I met along the process and grew to love as I would come over the house and cook and play games with them. During that time this woman introduced me to her entire family, best friends, we spent holidays together. She says I was the first to have ever been introduced to her family.
She is from Kenya as well, so I understand that meeting family is a big deal. Everything was going seemingly well, with her texting “I love you” every single day, writing me letters, flowers, with her even mentioning marriage & kids first. I always made sure to return her energy - followed her lead every step of the way. Was so emotionally (and even financially) invested. Even got an apartment in her city to be closer.
She is a full time student with 2 years left of studies, and I was also busy traveling a lot. I did notice she was busy at points and always told her I completely understood. I noticed she seemed more tired and not as present, and she sensed I knew something felt off. But I told her I understood she was probably overwhelmed and didn’t need to worry. Then the very next day she calls me saying she “doesn’t think she’s capable of loving me the same” and that “she can’t give me the love that I deserve”.
Then proceeds to say “I really liked you but I don’t think I was ever in love with you. I know it’s fucked up and it’s nothing you did or could’ve done. I’m extremely confused myself and honestly will need some deep soul searching.”
I was at a loss, and asked if she was sure about this and if I would need to move on, but she was crying and bawling her eyes out so much saying she “had no idea” and “couldn’t give me an answer right now”
Obviously I questioned her on everything and asked if the dates and moments we experienced were ever real to her. She then says “the moments were great but we experienced them on different levels.”
How am I supposed to interpret this?
I felt stuck waiting to hear her answer and tried to allow her space to “reflect” but wasn’t sure on how to proceed. I kept thinking “Should I wait to hear this answer or leave? Do women do this often? Why go so far to deceive me if she truly never meant it? Unless it’s just a phase that I’m unaware of…
Things did heat up fast I would say. But I felt pushed further because she would suddenly say things like “I see you being the father of my children” and then also writing these really romantic letters saying how much she loved me and how special of a love that I gave, etc. She would sometimes send videos of people growing old together saying that this was us.
Although, I do think immaturity is a big part of it actually, that makes sense. I returned her energy because although it was a lot, I felt I had really strong feelings for her and realized how much I wanted to be with her - so even if it was soon, I wasn’t opposed to the ideas at all.
As for how I was financially invested, was because we were kind of long distance in a way and I had to pay to travel to see her. I was pushed to get the apartment because her best friend was having suicidal thoughts and she said she really needed me there more than ever. She pushed me to make that move and really directed me to doing so about 3 months into our relationship.
As of yesterday she decided to block me on everything. It was strange because we decided to kind of leave space but I couldn’t sense how she was feeling throughout it (no texts or communication). We had planned a trip together while we were dating that was still upcoming and she had a final come up and wasn’t able to make it. I decided to still go on my own even though it was originally supposed to be for us together.
I didn’t know whether to continue to leave her space so when I came to town and didn’t tell her, there was this anger from her in me not telling her, which was strange because she insisted on leaving space. I just started noticing that her requests and expectations would sometimes be vague or very confusing.
She told all of her friends (that I met through her) about the breakup and the friends all called me directly to check on how I was holding up - but later she got mad at this saying I crossed the boundary by getting her friends involved - when she was the one that told them we broke up.
Her final message was that I couldn’t respect her boundaries with her friends, and her space, and that she “never looked at me the same ever since I accused her of deceiving me or using me for my emotional and financial investment” and she didn’t even allow me an opportunity to talk in my own defense. Which to me was strange out of all the times I listened to her side of things after she basically said to me she never loved me.
So now she’s completely cut contact and I’m totally at a loss. I’m pretty much guessing her friends might be also thinking this is weird behavior. I’m not sure what to make of this… what am I supposed to do now?
TL;DR Me (23M) and my girlfriend (22F) had a seemingly amazing relationship and then she suddenly pulled away crying and confused. Then the tears slowly turned to feeling sad for hurting me to somehow resentment (me being the bad guy) and she had a complete sudden change of heart.
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2023.03.22 17:01 CuteExample Should I send him this?

Long post again…
He hurt me pretty badly. I miss what we had but I I don’t feel the urge to write him or be in contact with him. We weren’t official. He wasn’t ready, but what he did hurt me deeply.
Context: He left me hanging for 2 weeks after we had a conversation about the future of our relationship: go our separate ways or become officially Bf/gf. We’d had similar conversations before, but he always stopped short of going the next step. Because of that I had already ended things with him twice before. It was left up in the air again but with the understanding we'd continue the conversation later on, because this time we were no longer long distance (USA-Germany). This time, I had found a job and had moved to Germany.
Well, he ghosted me, leaving me to wonder why he had disappeared. Turns out, instead of letting me know what’s up, he pursued other women—smiling for influencers on Instagram. Then I stumbled upon a post of his in a Facebook neighborhood group where he was trying to find a girl he had seen walk by while his workplace. He made this post during the 2 weeks ghosting period. I confronted him with it by taking a screenshot of it, texting it to him and dying thank you for your honesty. Then I blocked him.
He wrote a letter to explain himself, but it was full of justifications and lacked any kind of awareness and ownership for the hurt he had caused. Basically, he didn’t betray me. I was the last woman he had kissed, we weren’t officially together, he’s Not hopelessly in love with me, he has a clear conscience, plus the usual about his fear of this, that and the other, not having time for a relationship, not being sure where it would lead and not knowing if “that something that’s missing” boils down to him or me. Ok, but where was this letter in the days that followed our last talk? I responded by stating what had hurt me—him leaving me hanging for 2 weeks, fully aware of his realization and not telling me; leaving me to discover the reason behind his pulling away on my own. I then went no contact until December. We saw each other twice in December in group settings, because I’m “friends” with his friends and they invited me. I thought this would be an opportunity for him to apologize in person. Zilch. Nothing happened. Instead, contact was reinitiated without him ever mentioning what had happened and that bothered me. I started taking distance, but every now end then, he’d pop up randomly every few weeks or so with low effort texts, and it would irritate me, because I don’t don’t want to cultivate a friendship with him or any former relationship. I don’t believe in that and he knows where I stand with that topic.
In January, after he’d sent me a follow request on Instagram after +-2 weeks or our contact dying down, I was irritated and called him but kept my composure. I told him that it bothered me that contact was reinitiated and we’d seen each other twice without having a conversation about the obvious. It’s like it never happened. He didn’t seem to understand why the topic should be broached as everything had already been addressed in our letters to each other. In the end I told him via text I was done with going through the same cycle and patterns—same problem, different day. I didn’t want to have to explain my pain all over again nor have to beg for an apology. I said we should use this experience to learn from it. This was my way of peacing out and moving on. He then responded by saying everything has been said—that last (incomplete) conversation last summer and our letters. He holds our memories in high esteem, but said he’s staying single for now. (No one asked him about that, but ok). Well the context less popping up with random texts every few weeks or so didn’t stop. This time I hadn’t blocked him anywhere, he could still see my stories or just text for no reason.
This past weekend, he texted to comment on my profile pic on WhatsApp. I ignored it. Te next day, he messaged me to ask if I could write a Google review for his art, the earrings he made me. I said ok, I’ll do it. I haven’t. I was busy crafting this letter. What do you think? Sorry if the wording sounds odd. I wrote it in German (he’s German) then translated in English on Deepl to share with you.
Independent from what happened last summer, which hurt me a lot, due to our history, I don't want to maintain a friendship. I do not think much of friendships after dating, with exes, etc. For me it is enough to part respectfully and on good terms.
Despite everything, I continued interacting with you in a positive way, to give you the opportunity to start a conversation at any time; i.e. "the way I dealt with things wasn’t right.....", without justification and done. Discussing single status had nothing to do with it.
It was important for me, to know and hear that you understood. Precisely because, according to your letter, you were apparently unaware of any wrongdoing or hurt. And precisely because the last letter came from me. In it I described exactly what had hurt me—you disappearing for 2 weeks without clueing me in after our conversation that stayed up in the air- and what followed. Even in our last phone conversation, I noticed that you didn't think it was necessary or important to address it in person to clear things up. After that, I didn't see the point of having to explain the obvious. Hence my message of January.
Since there was no dialogue after the December reunion and beyond, and messages from you arrive from time to time, I do have to express it. Not addressing it would continue to understate and normalize the behavior of last summer and the handling of this issue when this was anything but normal, respectful and considerate.
Since no dialogue ever took place when contact was reinitiated or upon seeing each other again in December, and because you check in from time to time for whatever reason, I had to express it after all. Not addressing the issue would normalize, trivialize this behavior when it is anything but normal, respectful or considerate.”
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2023.03.22 17:01 Bruuuuuuh026 My friend (M35) asked my gf (F25) uncomfortable questions about our sex life

Hello Reddit,
A couple weeks back I was celebrating my birthday with my gf (F25) and a couple of friends we know from fairly recently. We had some dinner after which we moved onto some good old bar hopping.
One of my friends, let's call him John (M35), is quite the womanizer. He often hooks up with random women even when supposedly in a relationship and is quite open about his sexual life, raising it as a topic of conversation whether we are alone or with somebody else.
On the other hand, my gf, Laura (F25), is the polar opposite. She rarely likes discussing such topics prefering to keep them as a private matter between us.
During my b-day party, John had his most recent SO with him but on numerous occasions during our meal decided appropriate to discuss his hook ups with me and Laura. Things escalated as we got more drunk and moved to a nearby bar, with him being pushy and insistently asking Laura about our sexual life while I was away. He also shared with her "just how great he's going to fuck his girl after the party" which was information Laura hardly needed to know.
Naturally, this whole situation caused her great discomfort especially since this has not been the first time transgression by John when around us. Prior to this case, after having a couple of drinks together with him, his ex-gf and another friend of ours, his ex-gf alleges that he badmouthed Laura in front of her while we weren't listening. Understandably, we took that with a pinch of salt considering the source but knowing him it is not incredibly unlikely to be true.
I struggle to decide on an appropriate course of action in the current scenario as I am unsure whether John crossed Laura's boundaries in bad faith or not. Whichever the case, I totally understand why Laura feels no need to hang out with him anymore and will respect her decision but I am unsure as to whether I should call out his behaviour, keep silent and avoid confrontation or just start distancing myself from him despite enjoying spending time together.
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