The entire time. Even though what I thought was our best moments. Was nothing more that a “dead time filler”. An emotionless convenience. Cheap help. Something to discard when not needed anymore.

I knew of your activities, and cut ‘em short when they were briefing me. 2 years back. My mind blocked what it learned. My mental firewall. It started cracking when you put it out their that you despised of….out of spite. Eventually it suffered a total collapse. A few days ago reading who you spoke. Both during and right after. The “activities” you participated in. Both during and after. I know now, about what I knew before, but refused to believe. The heart was very naïve, inexperienced and stupid. And that is my fault. And mine alone to deal with. 

(And against my wishes on full display for all to see)(and btw,FUCK Y’ALL)

Well, you won the game. But we both know you’ll not stop your campaign unless I start growing them flowers. I read something you wrote a while back that said something to that effect. It was before your disclosure in regards to actions you’ve taken with a good shot of spite. You couldn’t have been more clear of your intentions and feeling towards me. You showed me. But I was too stupid to acknowledge, to believe what I saw and was hearing. That fact that these chickens in the attic are…well chickens in the attic is more that enough proof that it’s all true. You said you didn’t meet any of them since that birthday party in ‘18. And the ones you’ve never met…well the proof is in the attic or running across my roof at night. If you actually broken last year but I’m sure you already know about that.. 

I have to go now. Do you want I don’t believe what you were telling me the whole time more like showing me. Can’t do any more damage what you’ve done. I don’t think anybody can. So you get bonus points for that.
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Good evening! I've been looking for that special someone but still no luck. I've met some cool people but eventually the spark dies or things are more platonic. But that doesn't mean she isn't out there somewhere!
Physically:
I am 31, living on the east coast (obviously). I know physical attraction is important - I am 5'7", Southeast Asian, more musculadad bod type physique. I work quite random hours in healthcare but try to make it to the gym at least 2-3 times a week.
About me:
As mentioned above, I work in healthcare in a fairly high stress environment so when I am home I usually just want to laze about to recharge. Despite being an introvert (ISFJ/ISTJ) my work requires a lot of social interactions. I tend to be more of a homebody but do enjoy time out with my partner, less inclined to go to big social gatherings/bars/clubs.
Some of my hobbies include but are not limited to: Trying various restaurants, weight lifting, PC building, video games, walks in nature, occasional hike, and binging shows (anime/TV - definitely recommend TLOU).
Personality wise I am a good listener, considerate, patient, intelligent, open minded.
I enjoy various types of music such as Kpop, RnB, instrumental pieces, Rap/Hiphop, Jpop, etc. Unfortunately, I am not a big fan of country or metal music.
I am open to children, although I think the decision is ultimately up to the woman to decide since she does nearly 100% of the work in childbearing.
Looking for:
I am looking for my future partner, preferably someone between the age of 24-35 (some flexibility on this). Someone who's hand I can hold as we walk through the various food markets of the world. You eating two bites and me having to finish the rest of all the street side skewer we bought after just downing a meal less than 2 hours ago. Trying snacks and drinks from around the world before falling asleep while cuddling. I'm looking forward to traveling to Japan, South Korea, Thailand, and Iceland to name a few.
While I am not looking for someone with any particular interests or hobbies, but it's important to be passionate about something that you have an interest in or may be pursuing. Sharing some common interests would be nice. Video games are a large part of my life since I was young so it would be nice to share that passion with someone else.
I am looking for someone who is emotionally mature and able to communicate what they feel. I am the type of person who wants to understand your joy, happiness, frustration, anger, disappointment in hopes that I can either recreate it or fix what might be causing it.
Open to a LDR with the right person, but there needs to be plans for relocating sooner rather than later.
Misc:
Thank you for taking the time to read through my rather long post! I hope to hear from you. Feel free to DM me or send a chat. I would prefer to exchange pictures soon after interacting so we can get the physical attraction aspect out of the way and not waste each other's time.

This Novel is the best novel talking about the Human condition.
The Human condition simply means the Human experience, and when condition is mentioned it always implies a way to describe a Human Mind and the way a human life is
Although we as humans are different from each other but if you look deeply we aren't so different, but we are way different from animals in the way that we can see ourselves from an outside perspective
aging, life, sickness, emotions, happiness, misery, thoughts, volitions, actions, desires, aversions, fears, sufferings, hope, love, trust, forgiveness, hate...
Victory, defeat, losing loved ones, winning, rich, poor, old, young, discussions, fights, respect, tragedy, romance, revenge...
The Book deals with the human condition in an extremely unique way, one of the mottos of the novel is the Pursuit of Freedom and the Pursuit of the Beyond
Fang yuan the main character is a person who was has lived 500 years in his first life, he has lived through the vicissicitudes of life, he rode the waves of life, he was berated and suffered his entire life, he was extremely poor at some point then became rich then lost his fortune again, he has seen weakness, he has seen strength, he has seen victory, he has seen defeat, he has lived through everything a person can live, he has traveled for a long time and wandered thus his maturity
He suffers through hundred of years of suffering, this of course completely changes him, he ends becoming evil, a demon, tho he is emotionless and only does what needs to be done to achieve his goal
What is his goal? Is it women? Money? Glory? Revenge?
None of that
One Goal
Eternal Life.
An impossible goal which no one has ever achieved, even the pinnacle of human existences always died after hundreds of thousands of years, this is because of the Heavens, the creator of the universes who limits longevity
When the story begins, we meet fang yuan about to be killed
He doesnt shout, he doesnt cry, he remains expressionless and at peace despite being covered in his own blood, he recites a beautiful poem showing how short life is and how unreal it all seems
“The sun sets above the blue mountain, the autumn moon with the wind of spring. The morning is fine like hair and night is like snow, whether you succeed or fail when you look back there’s nothing left.”
Fang yuan then uses his Newly refined spring autumn cicada and suicides using his body and cultivation accumulation to Rewind Time and return to the Past
He will never give up on his goal of immortality but however he isnt sure wheter it would work
The Spring autumn cicada which he has refined and use to travel in time is a cicada which enters the river of time, a river which contains Time itself and swims the waves of time to return to the past
It works! Fang yuan returns 500 years in the past to his youth
Armed with his wisdom and ruthlesness, he swears that this time he will achieve Eternal life
Fang yuan is ruthless to everyone especially to himself, he will cut his ear if needed, he will scheme, rob, play political games
The story takes a slow approach and the first 100 chaptets are a prologue
But the Author uses that time to Build the world, the Best worldbuilding I have ever experienced, its so immersive and one amazing other thing, Completely Analyse Society, Fang yuan is against Organisations because the moment you are in you are entangled in its web, indeed he sees how an organisation brainwashes people to serve it while the higherups profit off people
But not just that he sees that Leaders themselves also are entangled, since they cannot break these rules, its like the rules becomes the actual thing that binds everyone
Fang yuan never breaks rules but he sees through them and never lets anything stop him
The story is standard villain
But the more you read the more exquisite it becomes until it becomes a Fucking Genius Story, the Best Ever, no joke.
Fang yuan fights insane enemies
Go through catastrophy after catastrophy and is unmoved by the world
Some of his poems are the best I have ever read and its such an artistic yet cruel tale
Fang yuan is Relentless, he will never give up, this guy is a madman, devil, whatever it takes he will pay it full price upfront!
He gets out of the Most Catastrophical situations with Pure Genius
He is the smartest most scheming character ever written no joke
And the Climaxes of Each Arc is Just Pure Divinity, no joke.
As for the Human condition, Throughout the Story we see how Fang yuan fights Fate
In this Story, Fate is Something Tangible and Physical
Its a Spider that puts its webs Everywhere and controls all beings
Except Fang yuan since he is a transmigrator
Heaven's will which is like the Self of the Heavens always stands in his path and tries to kill him by the middle of the story
But Fang yuan is Relentless, even seeing the Approach of his Death, He fights! Never gives up and faces Everything
This Story of Fang yuan fighting Against Fate, God and the Entire Universe.
At some point, the Entire World rallies to Kill him
At a point where the Fate war Starts
Half of hamanity wants to protect Fate because it helped humanity rise
While the other half fights to Get out of its shackles and get Human Freedom
Fang yuan alone doesn't give a fuck!
He wants to Kill Fate for Himself! For him to be able to attain Eternal Life!
This is the Genius of Fang yuan
He dies multiple times and returns in time but there are a lot of conditions which have to be met and arent always met
So he always has to use his power and genius to Overcome all Obstacles
As for his Poems, i will just let you read this in one of the most climactic scenes in which Fang yuan is at an Absolute Dead-end, nothing can save him
"Fang yuan alone kept moving forward relentlessly,
I had once screamed, gradually, I lost my voice.
I had once cried, gradually, I lost my tears.
I had once grieved, gradually, I became able to withstand everything.
I had once rejoiced, gradually, I became unmoved by the world.
And Now!
All I have left is an expressionless face, Only Perseverance remains in my heart!
This is my own - an insignificant character - Fang yuan's Perseverence!"
His Enemies sometimes have even better poems, his enemies are also made of pure genius and always put insane challenges to Fang yuan
Yet Fang yuan is relentless, even while losing, even in the presence of Death, he's perseverance and fearlesness remain immovable!
Honestly, the Peak Novel Ever Written. Period.

So, my friends and I often play board games. So there's one of our favourites, and there are some extensions to it. But throughout the decades, there have been numerous editions and not all are compatible. One of us is the one who has tons of games, it's like their thing. So for their birthday I really went on a hunt for one of the expansions. I spent months contacting sellers on eBay to inquire about the version they had to figure out if it was compatible. I finally managed after 100+ "not it"s, and it was also rather pricey, but I thought they would enjoy it.
Now we played it finally and From. The. Very. First. Second... They were so incredibly negative about it. Every single thing was met with eyerolls, expressions of frustration, comments on how useless, complicated , nonsensical every single action and rule is. It frustrates me because I know them well and I'm positive they would have liked it, had they gone in with anything but a this is dumb and unnecessary and overcomplicated attitude.
At some point I snapped and told them that if they are so convinced it will be shit of course it will be, and that the negative attitude would of course translate to an unpleasant experience. And that they were so busy slagging everything about it, rather than try and understand the very simple modifications in this expansion. I just told them I've had enough of this and grabbed my bags. I really wanted to leave but ultimately stayed because I had given another friend and my boyfriend a ride there and didn't want to strand them there. Luckily he held back a bit after that and the rest was okay.. ish. Now my boyfriend is saying he gets I was frustrated but I overreacted. Which I probably did by causing a scene but I got so angry at their behaviour which I perceived as incredibly ungrateful and just plain rude. I'd be fine if he'd given it a shot and not liked it. But to go into it tearing it down and complaining about every little detail from the start when it was a gift, and one I put tons of time and money I don't really have into.. it just felt like moaning for the sake of moaning, non stop, for ages. I didn't even do it to cause a scene but I really got upset they were so ungrateful as to not even try to have an open mind about something they would have liked had they not been so negative from the start for no reason. And i really just wanted to leave at that point and go home and read a book rather than listen to their whining.
Tldr: got a friend a gift, put lot of effort and money into it, and they complained and ridiculed it from the get go. I got angry with them and got my stuff to leave but ultimately ended up staying and continuing to play as normal the rest of the night cause other people depended on me for a ride

Ok. First, I have played through the first game 4 times, every time on grandmaster. It wasn't that rough, but a lot of fucking fun. Same goes for jedi survivor, but u can never tell me they play tested grandmaster. A game, that tries so much to be dark souls, but just adds some really bad balancing and retarded mechanics into it. It is mind buggering to me, that the enemies has sometimes invincibility frames in which it won't matter with what u hit. Fully charged upgraded throw. Who cares, I am not even talking about the big monsters, advanced human sized enemies can jump right through it. Or litterly the last lightsaber attack just goes through with no hit during some animations of the enemies. The game is good at giving the feel of being a jedi in terms of force, but ur lightsaber is just glowing stick. However there are 2 more reasons. First, the damage scaling is ridiculous, can't count how many attacks get u one shotted at the first planet, with plenty of life upgrades. The second is, some of the enemies are just horrible to fight with more than one of the same typ. Like they are overlapping their unparryable attack, that with a really bad combination of Enemies, can it become infinitely harder, than every boss. All those things result in grandmaster in absurdity when met with those "challange rifts" in which u are limited in ur Equipment, against a bunch of Enemies that couldn't have been picked worse together. I am a really patient gamer and play almost all my games on the highest difficulty. I never have a problem with dying, but Jedi survivor as much fun as it is, can be very toxic. Because it tries one thing to hard, what it just isn't. Trying to be dark souls, is the biggest weakness of the game. They just understand how dark is like and not in reality is, especially if I think about their function with bonfire resets. That feel so out of place and makes exploration so tedious, while nothing u do within the openworld feels like it matters. And that glowing stick could still feel like a lightsaber, when the enemies wouldn't respawn so easily or maybe even not all. I always like when games do that. And their cutted corpses keep laying there. wished they would have went with more of their own style, than imitating something just half way through, without understanding some core mechanics. I think i have to say now tho, that i think its still a really good game and I love it, it's my favourite game since eldenring release, I just wanted to share my issues with it. With that being said. Thanks for the attention and feel free to tell me what u are thinking of it.
Edit: after rereading I wanna say, that I think its not particularly hard in grandmaster, its just so inconsistent with its difficulty, that it's sometimes really bad, while its most of the game really good.

Originally from NYC. Stuck in FL temporarily. Looking to move somewhere cold eventually. Canadians are very welcome.
I may not be much, Frank, but, uh, I think you’ll find I’m a pretty sweet deal.
Introvert-homebody. I hate the public. The public is stupid. I don’t like kids either. But I do like museums and exploring nature.
I’m a half ass writer. I have some stuff on Amazon and a few new projects in the works.
I like a wide range of movies, shows and music. Scifi, fantasy, horror, some anime etc. I’ll play a few games a year. Currently playing AC Unity.
I appreciate people who appreciate a lot of different things.
“Nobody matters. It’s only important how you feel about yourself, and how Keanu Reeves would feel about you if he met you.”
Do I think not plugging open wounds with trash and eating cat food is putting on airs? You betcha.
We don’t do dishes. We eat the food directly off the coffee table.
Let’s get baked and watch LotR-extended versions.
Politics? BERN.
NO JIVE TURKEYS
Kindness and emotional intelligence are #1. I’ve been out of the game for years so I’m not looking to rush anything.
I’m a little on the thick side. Maybe you are too. I’m working on it though. (But you should totally stay that way if you want)
6’1 220lbs
Me: https://imgur.com/a/0GxI4Wh
I’d appreciate a picture and some reasons why you think we might be a good match so I know who I’m talking to.

It should have been the happiest day of our lives. Esther and I were to be wed in the middle of August after a month’s long courtship. The plans had been made, the feast was being prepared and I was a nervous wreck. How could I not be?
We formally met last fall at the harvest festival, though we’d been aware of each other our whole lives. In a small town like Sprucevale, Ohio, everybody knew everybody.
Her father didn’t like me, which I suppose is common for those who have daughters who fall in love. Her mother was too busy taking care of the younger children in the family to pay any mind to what her eldest child was doing with her life.
When I wasn’t working on my family's farm, I would walk over to see Esther. She was always smiling, and usually surprised to see me, especially when the snow was blowing and most folk elected to stay indoors close to a fire. The more time I spent with her, the more I knew she was the one for me.
As the ground thawed and the flowers began to bloom, I started working up the courage to ask her father for her hand. I’ll never forget the day I decided to do it. I rode over to their house, wearing my Sunday best and ready to do whatever it took to get his blessing. My bravery quickly faded, however, when I walked into the barn and saw him standing near his horse with a rifle.
It turned out, he was getting ready to go hunting and he invited me along. I knew I couldn’t say no, even if I wasn’t properly dressed for the occasion. As we rode out, he asked me if I had come over to see his daughter again. Stumbling over my words, I told him that I had, in fact, come to see him. When he didn’t say anything in return, I carried on telling him how I loved his daughter and I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.
I wasn’t sure if I was rambling on too much or if he was just not listening, at least until we reached a clearing where a large buck was standing at least a hundred yards away. Esther’s father grabbed his gun from its holster, took aim and fired.
The buck went down right away.
Turning back to look at me, he had a big smile on his face. After what felt like an eternity, he told me I had his blessing to marry Esther but he cautioned me to remember that day. I helped him load the buck and then rode off before he could change his mind or show off more hunting skills.
Returning to the farm, I found Esther and asked her to ride with me to one of our favorite spots. We were standing beneath a flowering dogwood tree next to the river when I asked her to marry me. She tried to pretend she hadn’t heard me just so I would ask it again before she finally said yes.
So, spring faded into summer, and we decided on a wedding date of August 12. We had a big party to celebrate the engagement and I started working on our future home with the help of my father and brother. It seemed as though nothing could go wrong, but if it had all gone right, I wouldn’t be here now.
As August drew closer, I found my nerves getting the better of me. My stomach was causing me pain from time to time, with the frequency increasing with each day.
Weddings in a small town are a big deal, and everyone gets involved in one way or another. The house was complete by the first of August and I moved in to make sure everything was right for our future family. Esther wanted to see it, but I told her she would have to wait for the night of the wedding as it was supposed to be a surprise for her.
A few days before the wedding, I confided in my father how my nerves had been bothering me and he assured me it was normal to have butterflies going into such a big event. I took his word for it, though I wish I hadn’t.
The day before we were to be wed, I found myself in a lot more pain. Not wanting to be a bother to anyone, I decided to take a walk and try to calm down. There was a trail near my new house that went along the river, and I thought the calm of the water would help. As I walked, I found the pain growing worse and worse in my stomach, until I felt like I was about to split open.
I held my right side as I walked, feeling worse and worse with each step. My vision started to blur and I felt myself falling off the bank, into the river below. I passed out and the pain finally subsided.
When I woke, I was back in my house, unsure of how I got there or what day it was. As I climbed out of bed, I heard a knock at the door followed by the voice of my brother asking why I wasn’t at the wedding. Panicking, I yelled back that I was on my way as I dressed and ran to the door. By the time I got outside, he was gone, likely back to the ceremony to tell everyone I was coming.
I hurried down the road, managing to arrive as several guests were leaving. I tried to stop them, but they ignored me as they walked past. I heard a few whispers from people wondering why I didn’t show up, some even saying they expected as much. My own father said he wasn’t surprised that I backed out after being as nervous as I was.
I was starting to get upset at them for ignoring me when I saw Esther sitting on the steps of the altar. She was staring off as if in shock, and I walked up to her expecting some kind of response only to be met with silence when I apologized.
I reached my hand out to touch her shoulder, but it went right through. She shuddered and looked around, putting her hand up to where I tried to touch her. As the realization hit me, I stumbled backwards, landing on the ground.
I was dead.
But that couldn’t be. I would know if I had died, right? I thought about falling into the river, how I had floated away. Where was my body? Someone had to be looking for me, they had to know I wouldn’t just leave the love of my life at the altar.
I tried again to comfort Esther, to get her attention, but nothing worked. She sat there, a blank look on her face, for hours. All the guests had gone home and the food was starting to spoil before her friends finally convinced her to go inside and lie down. I followed her, sitting on the bed and watching as she finally drifted off to sleep.
The next few days were rough for both of us. She kept asking why I had left her, crying and refusing to eat anything. All I could do was watch as she became a completely different person. The light in her eyes that I had fallen in love with was gone, replaced by darkness. Her friends finally convinced her to eat small amounts, but she only did it to make them go away.
Over the next several months, she faded more and more. Her parents tried to make her leave the room, but she just sat, stone-faced, as they did everything from asking politely to yelling at her. Even they eventually gave up, leaving her alone with only me to watch as she withered.
By late November, I started going out for walks when she slept. The pain of seeing her like that was unbearable. At first, I would only go out for a few minutes at a time, but I started staying out longer and longer. After a few walks I got the idea to start looking for my body, hoping in the back of my mind that finding it would somehow break the spell over Esther and she would be able to move on and find happiness again.
I walked for miles every night, looking up and down the river. After a while I forgot what I was even doing out there. The nights seemed to be growing darker, and the days were barely distinguishable from the night. The wind blew snow all around me, but I didn’t feel cold.
One morning, I returned from my stroll to find the bed, where Esther usually laid, empty. I felt relief surge through me as I believed she had finally moved on. Then I heard crying from the front room.
Walking through the house, I found Esther’s mother on a chair near the fireplace, sobbing into her hands. The rest of the family was gathered as well, but Esther was nowhere to be seen.
I was only able to take in the scene for a moment before it faded, darkness taking over again. As the light returned, I found myself in the cemetery. It was spring and a crowd was gathered around one of the graves. As I walked up, a feeling of grief overwhelmed me and I heard someone say she died of a broken heart.
As I looked around at the crowd, I saw someone dressed in white standing at the gate to the grounds. Esther had a look of rage on her face as she vanished before my eyes. I tried to find her, explain what happened, but she kept disappearing.
I walked constantly around the town, looking for her. She would show herself from time to time, always with a look of hatred before leaving again. The buildings around us faded and crumbled, but we remained.
The small town became nothing more than a legend, and we stayed. Some days I don’t even remember why we do this, play this game. Some days I can’t remember why it was supposed to be the happiest day of our lives.

Hello, Im just wanting to ask a few questions that hopefully can be answered...

1. Can you edit existing apartment complexes? Especially one's that haven't been occupied yet. Just want to make sure before i edit an apartment and not wanting to cause problems.
   
2. If u meet Santa in the game is it safe to delete the memories of him in simPE?
   
3. Someone on here had memories/met the stinky skunk. Can this cause corruption? They said that it might have been related to the fury in the game but im unsure. Anyways i have a mod that prevents the skunk so hopefully it works.
   

Thankyou :)

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General Resources

• General Database - Good for seeing Stats of Students, Drop Rate, Raid Stats
• Gameplay Help Overview - Great for New Players
• Min-Turn Stage Guide - Text Version, Japanese Website
• Min-Turn Stage Guide - YouTube Video Version
• PvP Guide -
• Raid Guide - More in-depth description on each Raid's Mechanics
• Raid Character Guide - Recommended Students for each Raid
• Unique Equipment Guide - More detailed stats number for Equipment
• Upcoming Banners
• Student Skill Level Up Priority - More in-depth guide for Student's skill level up
• Midokuni's Student Insights - General Overview of Students
• Global Event
• Gameplay Overview (Legacy Content)
• Upcoming Banners (Legacy Content)

REMINDER: Bind your account!

Please remember to bind your accounts and take note of your UID, member code, server location, and any information related to your account (e.g. amount spent, student roster, etc). If anything happens to your account (e.g. losing access, unauthorized access), you will need to provide as much info as you can to Nexon's customer support email. Guest accounts that are unbound will be extremely difficult to recover, perhaps impossible.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

[01] When does the server reset?
For global, dailies reset at 19:00 UTC and weeklies reset on Sunday.
[02] Should I re-roll this account?
This will depend on your priorities with PvE, PvP, or both, but you can generally see the “ideal” units as Iori, Hibiki, and Tsubaki for most content, while Shun and Haruna are great for PvP.
[03] Who should I spend my elephs on? Who should I mystic unlock?
At the start, prioritize spending your blank elephs on getting Serina to 2-star for the increased healing stat, Tsubaki to 3-star for the extra tankiness when she is reloading. It is generally advised not to spend your elephs on increasing characters to 4-star and 5-star ratings, since there is only a stat increase and the amount of elephs needed is quite high.
[04] What do my support students’ stats do?
Aside from increasing the stats of their own skills, support students will provide additional stat boosts to your striker team. The specific increase(s) can be viewed by clicking on “Support” on the right side of the team formation screen.
[05] What should I buy in the shop?

• Credit Shop - Buy out the bottom row of materials, then the first two tiers of enhancement stones as needed. Feel free to buy the higher tiers of enhancement stones if you feel that you have an excess of credits, which is very common.
• Eligma - This will depend on you, can reference question [03].
• Total Assault (raid) - Prioritize Maki’s elephs (until you unlock her) and save the rest of your currency for future updates that will add more low-rarity students to the shop, meaning you can unlock mystic for them without spending your eligma. You can also purchase the skill discs/blu-rays depending on your needs.
• Tactical Challenge (PvP) - Buy out the energy drinks as needed (warning: they are instantly consumed, they won’t be moved to your inventory). Many suggest to save these for events in order to buy drinks, refresh the shop, and repeat.

[06] What does the “leader” position do?
This is purely cosmetic, as it changes which student’s chibi shows up on the map.
[07] What benefits are there to joining a club?

• 10 AP are given daily and deposited automatically on teacher's mailbox, upon checking in.
• A maximum of two assistant can be set for Total Assault and Joint Firing Drill respectively.

1. Students assigned to assist with TA cannot also be selected to assist with JFD.
2. 20 credits are rewarded every minute by setting assistants.
3. The specific unit that is borrowed can be only used once a day.
4. There's a fee of 40,000 credits, when borrowing a assistant student.
5. The donor receives 50,000 credits instead; even though the fee is 40,000 credits.
6. The fee can only be received 20 times a day.

• It can be unlocked after clearing Mission 3 Act 4

[08] How does the pity system work?
You need to pull, at a minimum, 200 times in order to get 200 recruitment points that are redeemed for the character you want. The recruitment point system does not carry over from banner to banner, it is only shared between banners that are concurrently running.
[09] Why can’t I find my friend’s club?
While the servers’ updates are separated from JP and global, the global servers are separated further into smaller divisions. You need to be on the same server as your friend, which you can check from the home screen: top-right menu button > account > version info. The server must be the same.
[10] When is X banner coming? Should I save for X student?
We never know for sure, due to the fact that global servers are on an accelerated schedule compared to JP. Please refer to this guide for some more info.
[11] Should I use Pyroxenes to refill my AP?
If you want to prioritize progression, the first three daily refills are decently valuable, this is because the Pyroxene cost of refilling will increase for every three refills. If you are focused on character collection or future banners, you should be saving your Pyroxenes.
[12] Why can’t I buy X student’s eleph in the shop?
You can only buy elephs of students you own.
[13] What should I craft?
At the start, prioritize crafting cafe furniture until your comfort is maxed out, then students’ gifts, then whichever upgrade materials you need. The crafting system is the only way to get furniture and gifts at the moment.
[14] What is the “Anniversary” in account settings?
This is your birthday, used for characters to wish you happy birthday.
[15] When will the beginner guide missions for Nonomi end?
This is a permanent addition, so feel free to take your time with the tasks.
[16] What is the best place to farm EXP?
You can run any map to farm EXP, as the EXP gain is equal to the amount of AP spent (i.e. 10 AP spent = 10 EXP gained). You should be looking at the stages that drop the equipment upgrade materials that you need.
[17] What is the “Secret Tech Sheet” in the Total Assault shop?
This is used to upgrade a student’s (non-EX) skill to level 10.
[18] Is it worth doing a raid if I can’t pass X difficulty level?
It is always more efficient to clear the highest difficulty you can finish instead of failing/forfeiting a higher difficulty.
[19] Can I claim the Limited Students through exchanging Expert Permits? How often does the Expert Permit shop resets?
You cannot get the limited students via this method. You will still need to pull for them. There's no specific mentioned but it's expected to be monthly.

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I have been married to my husband for ten years, we dated for two years prior to that. Immediately before I dated my husband I dated the same man for 10 years. We met at work when I was 20 and was already in a relationship I started seeing him on the side and eventually left the other guy. We maintained separate residences but mostly lived together. we almost never fought. I worked and he finished school and I loved him deeply. After 7 years we broke up and I started dating other people, but none of them worked out. After about a year we got back together, and made plans for me to move in with him. Then my father passed away, he was my rock, and I moved into his house a few weeks after the funeral. A week later he went on tour with a band (work) it was a National and International tour. Honestly his house was falling apart and I was alone, I started playing online games and making up a fantasy life for myself. I started virtually cheating on him, sexting and Caming. I went and visited my boyfriend on tour on my 30th birthday and spent a good portion of the night crying alone in the hotel room. Then I started meeting the guy from the internet. One day my boyfriend found some chats and emails between me and internet guy, he kicked me out and it was over. I ended it with internet guy and even came clean to my online friends of the Fantasy I had created, I also stopped playing the online game. I tried to get my life back under control went to the gym, got a promotion at work and hung out with my friends and enjoy real life. I realized that I had a problem separating fantasy from reality and I have made a concerted effort to not lie or indulge in fantasy since. For me it is a slippery slope. I saw my ex a few times to get my last few things but he was still on tour. We were cordial but there was a lot of hurt. I kept hanging out with the same group of friends and slowly realized that though I wasn’t really ready for another relationship I had a lot more fun when one particular friend was there. Begrudgingly we started dating. My former boyfriend found out while on tour through a mutual acquaintance, that I was darting someone we both knew, he was very upset angry words were exchanged and we stopped speaking and avoided going to the same events. My now husband and I moved in together after 6 months and decided that at a year we would decide if we were going to get married or go our separate ways. We got married, almost exactly 2 years after we started dating. Two years later, we had our first child another two years later we had our second. I love my life. I love my kids. I love my husband. He is an amazing partner, father and makes me laugh daily. We aren’t perfect but we are very good. I am happy being his wife and being a mother is everything to me. In the past 12 years my ex and I have exchanged a few messages and both admitted culpability in the dissolution of our relationship. We have seen each other at a few events but our schedules are very different and it’s rare. I still feel shame and hurt for cheating on him. We still have a great deal of mutual friends and a few months ago we saw each other at a birthday party. We became friends on Facebook again and are occasionally chatting. I have been having x rated dreams about him almost every night. I also get excited when I get a message from him. And I feel guilty for it. In a lot of ways I still love him; but not as much as I love my family. I have told my husband we talk occasionally (it really is occasionally and it’s about stupid stuff) I have not told him about the dreams. My rational mind realizes that a stay at home mom of 40+ might wish for the simpler times of her 20’s. That sometimes one longs for a bit of excitement. My irrational mind says that I am going to leave my husband and children for what once was. I feel both excited and guilty. I don’t need any advise I just needed to put it out in the world.

This guy I met online while gaming about 5 years messaged me today after we haven’t spoken in years. He wanted to know if I was “sweet” or if I’m playing for the other team. Now I was entertaining the foolishness because I was just so confused at this. Why does he care? We’re not friends anymore, we don’t have each other added on anything so he went out of his way to find me on Snapchat. He then proceeded to tell me it’s not too late and how coochie is good for you. Called me a “batty bwoy” lol and then proceeded to say coochie builds strong bones. I began trolling saying that coochie is indeed a balanced diet and I only suck dick on wednesdays. Throughout this whole ordeal i was just think this guy must be DL because there’s no way he went out of his way to do this. What’s also funny is he lost a bunch of mutual friends because he sent them his sex tape unsolicited with his whole dick showing. I just wanted to hear thoughts on this matter. What do you guys think?

Necessary advice!!
I 20 F have been talking to this guy 21 M since last august after we met at a football game. He lives about five hours away from me, and we had matched on tinder a couple months prior, but never really talked and he had gotten my information and stuff and then after the football game, we just started talking more and we’ve been talking ever sense. However, I haven’t really had much flirtatious conversation and I like him and we chat every day on multiple platforms, but I will put feelers out there such as heavy, flirting and getting not what I expect back. He’ll continue to talk to me everyday but I just don’t know if there’s a romantic vibe that I’m getting from him. I however, feel like it could be a relationship but since he lives in another part of the state, the only thing we’ve been doing is talking over the phone and stuff. Should I ask what he thinks about us or just leave it alone. Also, he is moving to where my location is in a few months however, I’m just nervous that when he does move here it’s not gonna be what I expect or I’m gonna get let down. I would like to know what he thinks about us before he moves here? What should even say?

I'm extremely happy and confident but a bit lonely. I'm all love and light but of course humans will be human, Comments and stares to downright unfriendly behavior. I'm always sticking it out alone but I want to lean on others for a change. I remind myself of the things I grateful and try my best not to be cocky and arrogant. I don't feel true power comes from putting others down, but these humans irk me sometimes. Any tips on how to ground myself and not get wrapped up in this silly game. It's all my ego, I know. I dress up quite extravagantly and I love in NYC lol. I would assume that I'd be ignored like the homeless guys pissing on the subway but I guess not. I have to get used to being seen and the odd one out even in a huge place like NY

Hi. I’m 20f and I live in Southern California. I had recently joined a dating app because I haven’t been in a relationship in quite some time and I thought this would be the best way to “get back into the game”.
I started matching with people pretty quickly until I met someone who I thought was cute and we started taking. Fuck his privacy he stole my card, his name is Juan. When we started talking he told me to add him on insta so we can talk there and later gave me his number. I thought it was a little fishy but I didn’t say anything. He told me he did a modeling job where he gets paid a lot and his bank account was frozen due to all the money he was making. I didn’t think much of it.
Not too long after he asked me if I could do him a favor and I played a long. He asked if he can transfer his money into my account so that way we can meet up so he could withdraw the money and he would give me a grand if I helped him out (at the time I had just got laid off and I was struggling to find work) and I agreed. He asked for my address and everything and don’t worry I didn’t give him my SSN. He had access to my mobile banking app but hadn’t done anything. He then asked if we can meet up so I can give him my card so he can deposit money and me being stupid, I complied.
Next thing I know he got my account locked and my bank called me asking what was going on and that they were going to close my account on 6/12/23 if we couldn’t get it corrected. I lied and made something up which did help me prevent my account from getting shut down. The banker had told me the check was fake and that they were gonna remove it and restore my account. I had told juan and he told me he was going to talk about his work to give him another check and he would let me know what would happen. It’s been 7 days and he hasn’t texted me. I kept trying to text him asking for my card back but no reply. I checked his insta account and he had blocked me.
I have already changed my account password, asked for a replacement card and I’m just waiting for my card to come in the mail. I know I willingly gave some stranger my card but I have his phone number and a picture of his insta account.
Can anyone help me out?

Apologies for the long post, I do not type on Reddit. For background I have been all my life an extremely private and quiet person and I like to keep my circle small to 5-6 close friends that I can meet up with and hang out with online. Most of these friends I am active with and keep up with them as much as I feel is reasonable. This can mean sending posts I know they'll like, attempting to schedule something, and or asking if they want to play video games we have in common. I am by no means overactive or overbearing (at least from my own opinion), I try and match the energy they give me and check in maybe once a week or so.
Everyone I interact with is around my age group (18-21) and all of us are in college. I have always tried to be attentive and listen to advice and feedback closely as I'm not a very confrontational person to try and be the best person and friend I can be to them, as such I don't believe there has ever been a large situation or even very many conflicts that weren't common mistakes from either side that would justify the following thing I seek advice on.
I have 2 friends from this group, J and G (both female, I am Non-Binary) that I considered myself fairly close to, though G had been my best friend for years and we have known each other for longer. Both of them I feel I am no longer close to, and wish to seek advice on how to handle the situation or if communication is the answer to this.
For J, I have known her for about 3 years and we talked very frequently sharing multiple things in common. We went to the same college and met up monthly in person to talk and catch up, and some other events and occasions. I never felt any of these interactions went poorly, and walked away happy with how they went. I'm usually a listener and spend most of my time asking questions and listening, though I never felt things were unbalanced as she did the same thing back. These past 3 months communication has been less than desirable, and whenever I've sent a text it can take her upwards of 3 days to reply, which I wouldn't mind normally but it was every occasion I sent a message, which became less and less frequent. She stopped reaching out and I assumed she was busy with work and school.
I figured Summer would be a good time to try and do something, so I sent her a message and got a response back that she'd love to do something over the duration. I had a busy first week and then sent her a message the next to see if she'd be interested in doing something. She then informed me that she was moving that week halfway across the state which I had no knowledge of. She said that she'd like to play online games when she was moved, this was about 2 weeks after her move and I haven't heard anything. The advice I wish to receive on this matter is if this is an equal friendship. Some online friends have told me that this seems like a very one-sided friendship and I shouldn't keep chasing it, but my father has given me the advice that a good friendship is worth chasing after and spending extra effort on. I'm torn, I feel like I've done my part reaching out on multiple occasions only for the energy to not be reciprocated, but that also I care about her as a person and I don't feel like I can afford to lose a friend of 3 years.
For G the story is much more simple as this is extremely recent event. Me and G watch a show weekly, I usually initiate most conversations with her and we plan a date. She lost her grandfather 2 months ago and we stopped watching for a month, but were texting and talking from time to time and did talk over the phone a couple of times after. Recently she traveled to Europe for a week for school related things and I sent her a text asking how things were going, she said good and that she had pictures to send when she got back. I never heard from her and assumed she was busy or maybe not feeling like talking. That's fine. We missed the date for watching something and I felt that maybe something was off.
I sent her a text asking how she was doing and wanting to catch up and no response. I haven't heard from her in 2 weeks now, though we follow each other on TikTok since we sent videos to each other a lot during it's prime, and it notifies me whenever my friends log in on the application, so I at least know she's alive. This sudden drop in communication feels really sudden to me, and I'm not sure if I should send another text or wait for her to communicate with me as I don't want to be overbearing. I'm not sure if maybe this is grief related or not (her and her grandfather were reasonably close and she helped him from time to time), and that's why I'm treating the situation delicately despite my feelings being hurt at the lack of reaching out.
Really these two incidents have made me feel very insecure, and I'm wondering if inquiring about the state of these two friendships is a good idea, or if I should just attempt to move on or give them time. Thank you for your time and reading, and any and all advice would be very greatly appreciated.

I guess I want to ask your opinion on this: fiancé is the love of my life, but her father is a narcissists. Nothing violent, but the mind games and hostile manipulation run rampant in his behaviors (he’s also the breadwinner so the family sucks up to him). I’ve never had to deal with narcissists before I met my fiancé and for the last number of years of dating I’ve had to learn a looooot about the family politics and the disorder. I’ve always tried to be a support for my SO and have never pushed her to make a decision she wasn’t comfortable with and have tried to respect all rules and boundaries she’s had, gotta say there’s a lot of nuance that I still don’t pick up. I also will never ask her to estrange herself from the family because her mother and brother are loving people and important to her.
So far, I’ve gotten along with the family, they liked me, I was nice, kind, genuine, makes decent money, and treated their daughter well. No major alarm bells or drama or questions were raised in the last several years of dating. However that came to a crashing halt this last spring when nfil (I guess that’s what I’ll call him) decided that I’m his next target. I’ve never experienced the hostility and volatility of narcissism before this, and it’s now been going on for several months.
What set him off you might wonder? I disagreed with him on what the best tasting whiskey was. (Everyone’s allowed to have their own opinions right? Wrong.) He got so offended that I disagreed with him that he literally screamed like a child and stormed out of the room slamming the door (I should have never been in the same room alone with him, I see that mistake now). I thought that was the end of it. Nope. All of a sudden when I go upstairs the entire family hates me. He went on a slander mission to tell the family that I cussed him out and threw him out because of the disagreement (my fiancé was the only one who tried to defend me and they wrote her off because of “of course you would defend him”). Since then it’s been scrutiny and negative comments about every little thing that might be wrong with me. Anything he can come up with to say I’m not worthy of marrying his daughter, and the rest of the family is buying in and even using his same verbiage.
I’m trying to save face and make up to the family/defend myself without outwardly accusing nfil of lying (because that will go over very poorly) but I’m realizing that I’m now an “outsider” and even apologies are scrutinized, “kissing ass” doesn’t seem to work. The amount of manipulation this guy has over his family is honestly shocking. Like they admit he’s a narcissist and recognize his behaviors but don’t see what he’s doing here!?
What would you do in this situation? Am I just f-ed and should break up? Give nfil the victory he wants to avoid the abuse? It’s been months and I don’t see him stopping his manipulation/slander against me. And how much are Mil/BIL trapped in brainwash of “keep dad happy/keep the peace at all costs.” With that mindset they would happily throw me out to keep him happy. Like I get that it’s trauma response but they fell right into this guys manipulation.
My fiancé is on my side and wants him to stop and is trying to work with me to calm the family but it’s not going far and all I’m hearing is that I’m not welcome from the family. It’s turning into this taboo love and I absolutely hate it. I love my fiancé but I don’t want to be the rift that separates her from her family, but the constant scrutiny/rejection from the family is hurting my own mental health.
Have any of you had to break up with a significant other because of theiyour nfamily members? Does this sound like a salvageable situation? Is there any way to “make peace” with a narc? (Aside from giving in or outright estrangement).
Thoughts, opinions, advice and comments appreciated.

I’m new here and new to Reddit but just need to get these thoughts out of my head. We met in late February on Overwatch and she happened to live only an hour away so about 2-3 weeks after meeting she drove to my house. I have a horrible anxiety problem so it’s why she drove her and not vice versa. I was head over heals for her. I know we probably took things too fast and started talking about kids and getting married within a couple years but it just sucks. I’m to blame though. She has a lot of online guy friends she has met over the years playing games and I told her I didn’t like her talking to them daily. She never really did but I’d still make a big deal over nothing most days. She recently went out of state to see family for a month and told me we wouldn’t be talking as much as we did before. Which I knew would be rough but didn’t expect this. She followed an ex the day before she left and I blew up. I can admit I was little too controlling and took things too far and would hold on to things way too long. I can’t believe she’s gone but it’s all my fault. It’s just so weird how one day you can talk about kids and the future and the next day y’all are strangers. I told her I’m willing to change and do whatever is necessary to fix this but she said she just wants to be friends for now. Just lost and upset that I let my own selfish decisions ruin a good relationship.

NY came back with a vengeance and beat Toronto 3-1, the team had super strong mentals and were able to turn around what could have been a full hold to completing the map and almost fully capping it in OT.
MVP had to be Shockwave, man had the game of his life on Havana and was able to open so many fights, even when they were down a member, he was shutting down the opposition at every opportunity.
Fits went crazy on both Hanzo and Sojourn, he played into the rein and was able to make openings and get value when he absolutely shouldn’t have.
Seicoe was able to punish pushes and was able to swap to the tracer when needed. Had some questionable blizzards, but was able to make the most of them and get value
Kellan won the tank match up, and even though he had some questionable ultimates, he was able to stay alive and force point presence shifting the Defiants focus.
Lep had a good game and was being a Reddit Lucio, man was in the back line of Defiant constantly, he was able to distract UV enough on Havana to the point where he was unable to heal or get any value.
Creative is starting to give me peak JJonak vibes, he’s able to be deadly and is able to keep the team alive when they should crumble. He’s been one of the most consistent players on this roster.
Here’s hoping we can continue the lower bracket run this weekend.
NY Fighting!!

When you get gaslighted the purpose of it is to drive you crazy to make you look crazy so the abuser can point the finger at you.
I just got gaslighted and they used conditioning methods on me as well.
Thankfully they had gotten so comfortable using this method in the past for multiple years on people (8+ years). This gave them a serious weakness.
To gaslight effectively they require control of the environment. They also had too many people added to the mix. This helped break the control to some degree so it didn't work.
The person who chose to gaslight me dropped there mask. How? They were angry when I started something about there buddy. I basically rescued them from very bad people but they didn't like my method of getting the government involved. This broke them a bit and have me control again.
They also lost control towards the end. Something I said to the team member (one of the people added) made them panic. They confirmed to me my suspicion from the beginning that something strange was occurring (I was able to confirm who the other person I never met was).
They took my bait and I reversed the situation. One sat next to me to peek at my phone exactly like I wanted them to. This helped me confirm tactics.
The final nail in the coffin is they were way too cocky. How? They don't realize that even if they stay silent I already know everything that occurred. They talked negatively about me just like I wanted.
The game is reversed and all the pieces of the puzzle are in place. Instead of communicating with me, they chose to do this. It shows their afraid. I heard this person who gaslighted me has a worse attitude than the other individual who's their partner (narcists tend to have specific traits). I'm happy I met them. This is the second time I met them they just don't remember. Thankfully I do.
This is why it's best to stay calm and reevaluate information. If I acted out on them there I would have lost and they would win. They lost now. I was kind of hoping I could settle things with the big guns. They are the brains of the operation. They're not that smart though or as bad as the other. They're worse than the other one but still pathetic to me.
I guess I didn't meet a highly intelligent sociopath or psychopath as I wished I did. This one is low functioning overall. Not a threat just low self-esteem and it shows they're scared of me if they respond to this.
Don't ever act out because they win. Re-analyze the information if you want to make it out.
I hope my experience helps others. Now the games are over and they lose. Guess they should learn not to gamble because they went all in and they really suck at this.
Before anyone says why I'm mad or anything. It's not really the gaslighting or any past grudge. What I'm mad about is the method they used to deceive me and lead me on to make me think something else was going to happen just so they can pull a bait and switch. I personally would have let it go if it was just them getting a few kicks to fix their self-esteem. But they did something serious with something extremely important to me this is why I'm making sure they pay for it. They asked for this one. They should have just talked.