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Cats and their jelly bean toes

2014.12.30 03:19 saltyteabag Cats and their jelly bean toes

Those foot pads are so cute, and you want to touch them... but, *it's a trap!*

2013.08.26 00:02 Startled Cats

Funny gifs and vids of startled cats.

2019.08.20 12:38 I_Live_In_IKEA Cats Called Food

A subreddit dedicated to cats with food names.⁣ ⁣ For more cute food friends:⁣ ⁣ birdsnamedfood⁣

2023.05.28 04:18 givingtree17 31 [F4M] TX/Preferably online - Phone calls and movies

Hi :) I’m looking for someone near-ish my age to hang out and talk on the phone with.
I like traveling to big cities and I’ve been almost everywhere in the US. I’m not particularly drawn to the outdoors or new restaurants but I think it would be cool to meet someone who is to motivate me in the way. Weight lifting > cardio, though falling in love with cardio is on my list of future goals…the very far future lol. I can’t sing to save my life but I still sing all the time. If I know a song, I probably know every word. Try me lol. I’m on a huge Phoebe Bridgers kick right now since I only recently discovered her. This song played last night and i’m so love with it.
I love arts and crafts and I always joke that I’d make a hot step mom. I love baking too though I’d really taken a break from it since the holidays. I like cooking but find it a little sad to cook for just one person so I don’t explore it much. I’m having the best year of my life. I’m happy career wise (I work at a restaurant that I love with amazing coworkers) and I feel like I’ve really gotten finances figured out. Mostly due to me really wanting to buy a house next year. It’s important to me that any future partners believe in their ability to make and stick to financial goals, even if they haven’t really made goals in the past. I don’t mind helping someone figure it out as long as you’re willing to make sacrifices to achieve your goals.
I grew up in a super conservative and sort of religious household (did anyone else get Bill OReilly kids books for Christmas) and I hate politics now and I’m agnostic, but I’d say a lot of the same values shaped me. Sometimes I think about going to church just for the sense of community but I’ve been saying that for the last 10 years lol.
I get not everyone has a perfect life or upbringing but I’m really looking for someone who makes the best out of their situation and that’s proven to be a little difficult on Reddit. I truly believe things happen through us and not to us so I find self pity to be a little draining. Please be a generally positive person who believes they have the power to change their lives and circumstances.
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2023.05.28 04:17 ThrowRABanned Help with a meowing cat

We feed our cat twice each day with an automatic feeder. Every day, without fail, he moans for about an hour or 90 minutes straight until the food opens (the two feedings are close together). We went away and put a camera to watch him, and it has audio. We watched before he ate and he only moaned three times and then stopped. Now that we know he moans just for us, we would like to figure out a way to get him to stop like he did when we were away. Any ideas?
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2023.05.28 04:17 erpasd Anything to improve on this build? (gaming/ DL)

After some research I landed on this build:
PCPartPicker Part List
Type Item Price
CPU Intel Core i7-13700F 2.1 GHz 16-Core Processor $329.99 @ Best Buy
CPU Cooler Thermalright Peerless Assassin 120 SE 66.17 CFM CPU Cooler $37.90
Motherboard Gigabyte B760 AORUS ELITE AX ATX LGA1700 Motherboard $179.99 @ Amazon
Memory TEAMGROUP T-Force Vulcan 32 GB (2 x 16 GB) DDR5-5600 CL32 Memory $84.99 @ Newegg
Storage TEAMGROUP MP44L 1 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 4.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive $44.99 @ Amazon
Storage TEAMGROUP MP44L 1 TB M.2-2280 PCIe 4.0 X4 NVME Solid State Drive $44.99 @ Amazon
Video Card Gigabyte EAGLE GeForce RTX 4080 16 GB Video Card $1099.99 @ Newegg
Case Fractal Design Meshify 2 Compact Lite ATX Mid Tower Case $80.98 @ Newegg
Power Supply Corsair RM850e (2023) 850 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular ATX Power Supply $129.99 @ Amazon
Operating System Microsoft Windows 11 Home OEM - DVD 64-bit $99.99 @ Newegg
Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
Total $2133.80
Generated by PCPartPicker 2023-05-27 22:04 EDT-0400
I was wondering if there's something clearly wrong/bad or that could be improved. Some additional info:
Some open questions I still have: * OS, win10 or win11? are there any substantial differences? * cooling, I'd like the pc to be quiet but I'm afraid of messing up installing a liquid cooler, what's your recommendation?
Any input or suggestion are more than welcome! thanks for your help :)
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2023.05.28 04:17 weatherman278 Is your best time kept for leaderboard events?

So, if i do the Figment leaderboard event, for example, and my best time is in the first race and I do worse on my second and third try, is my best time from my first attempt kept? Thanks!
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2023.05.28 04:17 aCrabRangoon Cannondale Compact Neo vs COOP E1.2 ?

We're e-bike newbs but my wife test rode a Cannondale Neo Allroad + Adventure 4 Neo, a Tern GSD, and a COOP E1.2 and she liked the COOP on 20" wheels the best.
I had planned to order a Cannondale Compact Neo, but it seems none anywhere around here are available for demo or inbound. In the event any of you have tried the two of them, I'd appreciate some comparative input. If you're more bike knowledgeable than me (you probably are, I promise) I'd also like to know how they stack up on paper per specs?
TBH the COOP options are $1198-1518 on sale this weekend, plus a $300 rebate from our city. The Cannondale is $1900 plus $600 rebate from my city.
P.S. other brands of bike are not really under consideration- we live under 2 miles from REI and purchasing either model from them is ideal for warranty / repairs.
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2023.05.28 04:17 Darth-Ragnar Realizing you missed vanilla and Classic launch, only to be left with WotLK

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2023.05.28 04:17 burn-account2344 (Update) My (23M) best friend (22F)flashed me

Link to original post:
So earlier this week I made a post about how my friend flashed me and claimed it to be an accident. I’ve talked it over with my mother and have told her I’m planning on having a talk with her. Her reaction was basically telling me it’s about time. I plan on telling her after a dance social next Wednesday. I have never been more terrified in my life. Anybody got any tips on what would be the best way to do this? We carpool to dance so I’m gonna drive like always and after when I go to drop her off before she goes I’m gonna ask if me and her can talk first. I’m so stressed lol. I can’t even think about what to say. Any advice you guys can give me would be greatly appreciated
TL;DR I’m planning on talking to my friend about our relationship and would like some advice
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2023.05.28 04:17 Wrong_Result_8074 Opcode 14, Opcode 8, and member fetching; a few questions

So lately I have started to try and interact with Discord via their gateway for mass user scraping, and I have come across some things that I would like some clarification on. Hopefully this subreddit could be of help!

Opcode 14 VS. Opcode 8

The main consensus I have come to is that opcode 14 is used for when you want to fetch online members, and opcode 8 is for trying to fetch the whole member-list of server (brute-forcing the guild search functionality).
I don't really know if that is correct though, from my testing it seems that smaller guilds return their whole member list opcode 14 is used.

Member Fetching...?

Something else I don't really understand is fetching certain member-list ranges (as well as respectively subscribing to the events?). The message payload I am sending to the gateway is supplied below:
{ op: 14, d: { guild_id: "GUILD_ID", typing: true, activities: true, threads: true, channels: { "CHANNEL_ID": [[0, 99]], } } } 
After I receive a SYNC message form Discord with the members from the given index, should I make a new request with new range of indices? ([[0, 99], [100, 199]] or [[100, 199]])
The implementation I was thinking of using would just be consecutively fetching larger and larger indices until an INVALIDATE message was sent, meaning the range I am now requesting is invalid.

Fetching Consistent User Data

So during my initial testing I have came to the somewhat uneducated conclusion that the discord gateway only sends back certain data when implementing opcode 14. I am looking to scrape the information below (a typescript type for the sake of simplicity)
type DiscordUser = { user: { id: string; username: string; global_name: string; avatar: string; //{user-id}/{avatar-hash}.png discriminator: string; banner: string; //{user-id}/{banner-hash}.png banner_color: string; accent_color: number; bio: string; avatar_decoration: string null; }; connected_accounts: { type: string; id: string; name: string; }[]; badges: { id: string; description: string; icon: string; //{icon-hash}.png }[]; premium_since: string null; premium_type: 1 2; }; 
My initial but of course short-lived idea was to have a resolver that just took in a batch of userIds and a token, and would hit{user-id}/profile for each of them. There has to be some better way of doing so though, right?
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2023.05.28 04:17 mialg Penis Enlargement Methods: Exploring the Pros and Cons of Various Approaches

Penis Enlargement Methods: Exploring the Pros and Cons of Various Approaches
It is very realistic to increase your penis size on a significant basis. If you are around average right now (average is 6.5 inches long and 5 inches around) you can become legitimately "well hung" with penis enlargement.
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  • Side effects. Most pills have them, and penis enlargement pills are not excluded.
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2023.05.28 04:17 SilentGamer2023 Sold an ATV to someone nearby... I screwed up I was too kind and trusting...

So I know the Persons name and number. I gave them over the Winter to pay, but they never did. They only paid half so far and they kept coming back and paying at the time..
I have their facebook account was able to find it even has my ATV being using on their profile.
They refuse to contact me or my wife back.
I'm wondering since they paid for Half and I don't think he deserves it for the $3000 I sold it from can I legally say it's been stolen and have it recovered by local police?
He must be a bit of an idiot since I still have the full ownership, etc... At this point been like more then half a year I feel the $1500 paid for his usage and I should just plain and simple say he stole it or is that illegal on my part lol?
Just wondering what should I do because I fucking want more then $1500 for something worth a lot more, the guy was young and kind and I thought I would help him out...
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2023.05.28 04:17 PurpleSolitudes Best Gaming Routers In USA Available on Amazon

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2023.05.28 04:17 georgereyes0 Lawyers Pensacola

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2023.05.28 04:17 breadandbunny What is the best-paying dietetics job you have had?

I would like to hear success stories about starting in this profession with a GOOD salary. I am so sick and tired of seeing the salary ranges for a new RD. I don't understand what the point is of having a higher degree if you still cannot break into your career at $70K or better. I want to fight to get a job that's going to actually pay me close to what I have worked really hard at and taken out all these loans for.
What were some of the best-paying jobs in your career?
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2023.05.28 04:17 StudentOfSociology Authoritative online source for all BOC lyrics?

I'm looking for the best one-stop-shop online source for all BOC lyrics. Various websites, such as Musixmatch or, offer BOC lyrics, but lack clear sourcing information and sometimes contain mistakes. Where does BlueOystercult recommend I look online for a comprehensive repository of correct BOC lyrics? Perhaps or elsewhere? Thanks!
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2023.05.28 04:17 EffectiveHonesty Exceptions

I find myself bending my rules for you in ways you probably don't even realize. I’m admittedly pretty rigid when it comes to relationships. I have acquaintances, but my inner circle is intentionally kept small. I’ll often find reasons, any reasons really, to create a certain distance from people. I realize this could make me sound sort of heartless, but it’s the truth.
With you, it’s different, though. The very traits and behaviors in you that would usually cause me to run or change my perception of someone instead cause me to question my judgments and biases. I’m unsure why, but I’ve always had such a soft spot for you.
Expressing love and warmth through words doesn't come naturally to me. But I don't want my fear of vulnerability to rob me of the possibility of something truly special. One day, things will unfold, and I’ll do my best to be vulnerable and honest, I promise.
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2023.05.28 04:16 Gloomy_Salt3016 gyro being caught in the act

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2023.05.28 04:16 OkTarget1654 My (22M) Best friend (22F) broke up with her boyfriend and made a move on me. Didn’t reciprocate. How do I navigate this?

So, to start off I wanna say this girl (Madison) had been dating her boyfriend (Javier) for over 2 years. He cheated on her last weekend and when she caught him, he just broke up with her on the spot. It was really sudden and out of nowhere, as it caught me and our other friends by surprise.
They lived together, so by result, she didn’t feel comfortable staying there and I helped her move all her stuff to my place (I had just bought a house so I have plenty of room)
Maddie and I have been close for a long time, dating back to high school, so we’ve always had each other through everything so I told her to stay with me for a bit. She’s been fully moved in for about 4/5 days now.
The other night we were playing a drinking game and watching a movie. She was decently tipsy, and eventually after the movie was done, we were having a deep conversation and she got really emotional. She ended up grabbing my hand, and telling me she needed help with something in her room.
We went in there, and she pulled me into her bed and she kissed me. She thought she made a mistake at first and went too far, but I told her it’s okay. She asked if I would sleep in her bed and cuddle her tonight, and said “I could use the comfort” so I did.
The next morning, we had a talk. She said she liked me and I told her it’s probably for the best it’s not acted on in the immediate future. I told her I think deep down I do too, but that she is emotionally reeling and I don’t want to make rash decisions with her when she is vulnerable.
She didn’t like that, and despite recent events, she said she is capable of thinking with logical and emotional intelligence. Her exact words being “I told you how I felt, and you still managed to make me the problem” and I told her it’s not like that, I just wouldn’t wanna rush things. She cut me off and said “I thought you would be the kind of partner that I can trust to let me make my own decisions and not put me in a box”
It honestly caught me by surprise. I didn’t expect that reaction, and now I feel like I somehow fucked things up by playing it safe, and I don’t know if that’s says more about me or more about her.
I do like this girl. Deep down I know it, but I tried doing the right thing. How can I fix this, if possible? Thanks in advance.
TLDR: best friend was cheated on and her boyfriend broke up with her, she has been staying with me, made a move after a long night, we talked about it the next morning and I think I insulted her unintentionally.
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2023.05.28 04:16 ImaginaryStudy8406 AITA for telling my friend that her boyfriend has a right to be angry at her for using adult toys

My (23yo) friend Hannah (fake name) is refusing to talk to me because I agreed that her (25yo) boyfriend Patrick (fake name) has a right to be angry at her for using adult toys.
When Hannah and Patrick first started dating Hannah made it clear that watching porn is just as bad as cheating to which Patrick agreed with and believes that if you need porn to get off your clearly don’t have a good sexual relationship with your partner. Patrick also made it clear that he didn’t like the thought of using sex toys or Hannah using them, Hannah had already had a few toys before meeting Patrick but agreed to not use them because she didn’t wanna make him uncomfortable.
I personally don’t have a problem with either my partner and I use toys on each other and watch porn together but have agreed that if he becomes something that we are trying to hide from each other that’s when it becomes a problem.
Well fast forward to a few days ago Hannah called me up in tears because her and Patrick had got into an argument because she went to her sisters bachelorette party and they ended up going to a adult shop and she brought herself a toy.
When she got back home she was pretty drunk and tried to get Patrick to use the toy on her and of course he didn’t wanted to but Hannah wouldn’t take no for an answer and instead use it so she used it on herself while Patrick was in bed beside her. Patrick ending up leaving to which she said and I quote “killed her mood”.
Patrick slept on the couch and in the morning reminded her of the boundaries that they had set when they first started dating and if she wasn’t satisfied with him anymore she should have talked about it with him and not gone and brought a toy knowing he was uncomfortable with her using them.
He has been staying with his brother and Hannah thinks he might break up with her, I told her she try should talk to him but he had a right to be angry because they both set boundaries, she broke them and she was in the wrong, now she thinks I’m being the asshole.
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2023.05.28 04:16 rrandomCraft 28M Manchester, UK - Looking to make friends (or more) to hang out with irl

My name is Kiran and I have just moved to Manchester for the first time for a new job. I would like to find people to make friends with and show me around this city since it is lonely without people to spend this summer weather with... qwq. Maybe it will lead to something more if we click?
I prefer young people (mid-20s to early-30s) and people who live near or in the city. I also prefer us to have similar interests so we at least have stuff to talk about.
A little bit about me: I am a weird geek/nerd that loves science, sci-fi, anime, and music (electronic, jazz, indie rock). I also love going out to eat at new restaurants and drinking at cool bars. I also like going to concerts. I am an avid watcher of anime and am currently watching Dr Stone and Isekai Quartet.
Please send me a message (not reddit chat) on here or discord (DJKiran#1971) if you are interested in making a new friend! Do not message if you don't live locally (the conversation will end pretty quickly).
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2023.05.28 04:16 Ill-Concentrate1218 When?...

Warning. Long story ahead 😂
In a relationship with a man who has 2 kids. SD(9) and SS (5). Been with him for almost 3 years. Lived together for 2. BM would not allow me to meet the kids until they went back to court for a custody adjustment. Her lawyer talked some sense into her so she finally allowed me to meet the kids.
I've never EVER spoken to this woman in my life. She refuses to meet me, but finds the need in always dragging me into their problems. They speak on Talking Parents app and she's still petty and childish. When i was first around the kids, she asked my bf to not leave the kids alone with me. Understandable, i was new to them. But her version staying alone with them was that she was requesting that when we needed to pump gas, i had to do it. Because those were 30 seconds of unauthorized time alone Id have with the kids while he pumped gas...she also requested that when the kids were over, i had to take out the trash. Because again, those were 30 seconds of unauthorized time with them. It has just been petty shit after shit.
One evening during drop off, she was already mad about something and saw me in the passenger seat of his car. Mind you, i never get out of the car, they handle their business. She sent him long paragraphs about how she swore on her life how I'll never be around drop offs and that i wasn't authorized to be there and how she'd take him back to court just to never see me in the car with him again during drop offs.
She pulls stunts to prove to herself or maybe even to me that she still has him by the balls because of the kids. Texted him on a Thursday night at 9pm asking about a jersey, he told her he had it, then proceeds to tell him he needs to drop it off that night. She needed it for Friday morning. He tells her he has plans, she replied "i don't give a fuck about you and your plans, you will drop off the jersey when i say so". They argued for an entire hour. We had plans 1.5 hours way from where she lived but in the end she won. She finally told him that jersey was for a project and SD was going to lose points if she didn't wear it. Guilt tripped my bf. We drop everything we were doing to go drop off the jersey. He emails the teacher about how she did and finds out there was never a project to begin entire show. For what???....and she does this right when things get peaceful or they haven't argued in weeks.
Recently we went to medieval times and the 4 of us took a family pic. His daughter begged us to take a copy home so we bought her one. The next time they came over, the pic was returned to us. She told my bf that his daughter wanted nothing to do with the pic and that there's boundaries. That no picture of me or my bf was to ever enter her home. Like's for the kids...his daughter was pretty sad she couldn't keep the pic at home.
The only time her and i have ever been close to each other was one time at Starbucks, they had to talk among themselves and the kids because of how the kids had been behaving lately. I purchased my coffee and left back to the car.
I get it, they were together for 10 years, he cheated and she can't understand he's happy again. But this is a lot
My bf had to have an emergency dental procedure and has to be put to sleep. The kids needed to be picked up. He asked her if it was ok for me to do it since he'd be loopy, she replied yes. Then of course the night before his procedure, she replied telling him she changed her mind and she has emailed the entire school to let them know I'm not allowed to be around the kids. Like wtf?? For what?...I'm HELPING you guys. He's tried putting me on the pick up list in case of emergency and she has managed to take me off every time. She's a complete shit show
And again, they talk through talking parents. She's called me names, dragged my name left and right, has called us clowns. Had made up scenarios that never happened and it's crazy to me how she can keep doing this
We went to court to ask how we can get the harassment to stop, printed out about 30 pages of screenshots in the app and they literally told us to turn around and go home. They can't make a person act right.
Like wtf? So we're just supposed to live like this? If her requests aren't done, she's allowed to send 20 + texts until she harasses and guilt trips us enough??? She literally does not stop texting and calling my bf names, and telling him he's a shit parent until she gets her way. It's her way of throwing a tantrum.
Sorry for rant. I needed it.
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2023.05.28 04:16 k0azv No, I will find those flowers...

While my wife was alive every spring would involve going out to get flowers to plant. I would grumble and get crabby about planting them. Because she was disabled, used a wheelchair, and had mobility issues due to joint fusions and replacements, 80 to 90 percent of the planting fell on me.
The spring she passed away I hitched up my pants and went out and got flowers. I was able to get them planted without being grumpy or crabby. I felt it was my way of showing my love for her and finding a way to keep her spirit with me.
Most springs I don't have an issue with getting out and buying flowers. This year, well this year has sucked. I wound up in the hospital almost 2 months ago because of a afib (actually an atrial flutter) that presumably was caused by a bout of pneumonia that I had. Wound up as an inpatient for a week and had to have my heart shocked back into rhythm. Came home from the hospital with the lingering effects of the pneumonia and then 3 weeks later, wound up with COVID.
This weekend was the first weekend that I had the opportunity to go get flowers. I knew that there were flowers that were must haves. Zinnias were always top on that list. She had a service dog when we first met named Zinnia or Zinny for short. Zinnias at the local super big box hardware store are not generally in abundance at their garden center. I have for the past few years been able to get to a local nursery where there was a large selection.
Got up this morning and headed out to that nursery only to find that they were closed for the season already (yeah, sort of like a dump being closed on Thanksgiving). Found my way to the garden center at the big box store to hope that I could find them. As I was walking through the isles of plants, I could hear her in my head saying "sweetie, it is okay if you don't find them" My reply to that was, I will find them!
Fortunately I found them and I bought the last two that were in the garden center that I saw. Normally I have at least a dozen of about 6 different varieties. I have them planted as of this evening and I can feel her sign with gratitude that I found them for her (I did find the pansies before all of this health nonsense I have been dealing with, it was the only other must have she wanted every year).
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