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I (25M) and my mum (43F) have not spoken in over a month now. I'm a postgraduate student studying away from home in a different country.
The crux of the issue is this... my mother is very hot tempered and yells quite a bit when she's upset. She's an African parent afterall so it's something my siblings and I are used to. I love my mother but this past incident was my breaking point.
I have been going through a really tough time lately with school and a lack of funds to finish my research work and cover other expenses. I've attended a number of interviews but jobs are also very difficult to find here at the moment perhaps because I do not yet have my masters which I'm working towards or perhaps because I'm not a native of the country I'm studying in but for whatever reason, it's been difficult so when it gets really difficult to the point where I sometimes am not able to eat due to severe financial difficulties, I reach out to my dad to see of he can help me.
Things aren't great at home either. My siblings are quite younger than I am (the oldest of them is 17F then there's 15M, 13F and 11M). I recognise this and know that I am not a priority and in a perfect world, I wouldn't be asking my dad to help me with something like this but it's the situation I find myself in. When things get to the extreme, then and only then do I reach out to him to see if he can help me a bit which if he's able to, he does and I'm really grateful or if he's not able to, I understand because like I said, I've got younger siblings and I'm not the priority.
So, I tried reaching out to my dad but I did not have any call minutes to make international calls or even to him. I tried WhatsApp but he hasn't been active in months so I reached out to my sister (17F) schooling back in our country and asked her to please deliver the message for me but she too wasn't online so I texted my mum on WhatsApp and asked her to please call my sister and ask her to come online. She asked if everything was ok so I explained that I had a message that I needed my sister to pass on to my dad urgently. She reached out to my sister and later returned to ask me what the message was about. I told my mum how difficult things were for me. I told her I was in debt and broke to an incredible degree and I was asking my dad if he could be of some assistance to me.
She asked what debt I had and I told her about the lady who owns a little shop close to where I live and how she's given me some food items on credit for months now and I wanted to pay her something. When I said this, my mum got angry and started yelling at me. There was an incident in the past with this particular lady at the shop where she got a little aggressive with me about paying her what I owed and as embarrassing as the situation was back then, I didn't talk back to her or raise my voice in anyway. I simply did my best and paid her in full. I'd told my mum about this incident at the time and spoken about how embarrassing it was for me and I decided not to take anything on credit from her anymore but when things get so bad to the point where I couldn't feed yourself, I had no other option but to return to her asking to take a few food items on credit which she gave me.
However, when my mum heard this, she got angry with me and asked me why I went back to the lady to take things from her again after the past incident. Before I could speak and explain, she sent me a 4 minutes long voice note on WhatsApp yelling and screaming at me and I kinda just snapped at that point and asked her to stop yelling at me. I told her she isn't here and doesn't know my situation at this moment or what I'm going through. I told her that I have almost never asked her for any kind of financial assistance because I know things aren't great with her either. I told her that all I asked her for was to please ask my sister to come online on WhatsApp and that was it instead she's yelling at me. She couldn't calm down for a minute to hear me speak or listen to me before making up her own conclusions and shouting at me.
I never ask my mum for money when I'm in dire situations because I know she doesn't have. Instead, I usually send her money occasionally when I can. After she and my dad had a very contentious separation and she moved cities, she'd get ill consistently with malaria and typhoid and I spent so much money each time getting her the needed treatment but she cannot give me a minute to hear me out?
Anyway, after I told her not to yell at me, she replied with "if you were here and said this to my face, I'd have slapped you very hard". I got even angrier when I read that and I told her that I was never going to ask her for any favours anymore. I told her that if I was dying, it was no longer any business of hers and that I was going to sort out my problems myself without ever involving her anymore and we haven't spoken since then. When I said that, she said I was lucky I wasn't in her presence at the moment else she would have slapped me and I didn't respond.
I texted my sister and told her what happened. I was so angry. I was and still am very depressed. What if I was at my wits end and her yelling at me was what drove me over the edge to end things? Would she be happy? If I decided to open up to her about my struggles, would she be able to take it? Why can she not calm down and hear me out for even a second? When she separated from my dad, 5 years ago, she left all 4 of my siblings with my dad and moved away to a different city. When I tried explaining how this action could be damaging to my siblings as they were so young then, she said she was going to lay a curse on me for speaking to her that way.
When I tell her the uncomfortable truth, she threatens to slap or curse me but she believes she's the moral authority and no one can ever point out her flaws.
Sometimes, in the past month, I have thought about contacting her but it's dawned on me that she hasn't made the conscious decision to contact me either so I refuse to reach out to her. The other day she asked a family friend to reach out to me and talk about somethings and I told them to tell her that if she wants us to speak again then she has to apologise for what she's done because I am so angry with her. That was almost 2 weeks ago.
This is the hill I'm willing to die on. Is my anger justified or AITA?

I (25M) and my mum (43F) have not spoken in over a month now. I'm a postgraduate student studying away from home in a different country.
The crux of the issue is this... my mother is very hot tempered and yells quite a bit when she's upset. She's an African parent afterall so it's something my siblings and I are used to. I love my mother but this past incident was my breaking point.
I have been going through a really tough time lately with school and a lack of funds to finish my research work and cover other expenses. I've attended a number of interviews but jobs are also very difficult to find here at the moment perhaps because I do not yet have my masters which I'm working towards or perhaps because I'm not a native of the country I'm studying in but for whatever reason, it's been difficult so when it gets really difficult to the point where I sometimes am not able to eat due to severe financial difficulties, I reach out to my dad to see of he can help me.
Things aren't great at home either. My siblings are quite younger than I am (the oldest of them is 17F then there's 15M, 13F and 11M). I recognise this and know that I am not a priority and in a perfect world, I wouldn't be asking my dad to help me with something like this but it's the situation I find myself in. When things get to the extreme, then and only then do I reach out to him to see if he can help me a bit which if he's able to, he does and I'm really grateful or if he's not able to, I understand because like I said, I've got younger siblings and I'm not the priority.
So, I tried reaching out to my dad but I did not have any call minutes to make international calls or even to him. I tried WhatsApp but he hasn't been active in months so I reached out to my sister (17F) schooling back in our country and asked her to please deliver the message for me but she too wasn't online so I texted my mum on WhatsApp and asked her to please call my sister and ask her to come online. She asked if everything was ok so I explained that I had a message that I needed my sister to pass on to my dad urgently. She reached out to my sister and later returned to ask me what the message was about. I told my mum how difficult things were for me. I told her I was in debt and broke to an incredible degree and I was asking my dad if he could be of some assistance to me.
She asked what debt I had and I told her about the lady who owns a little shop close to where I live and how she's given me some food items on credit for months now and I wanted to pay her something. When I said this, my mum got angry and started yelling at me. There was an incident in the past with this particular lady at the shop where she got a little aggressive with me about paying her what I owed and as embarrassing as the situation was back then, I didn't talk back to her or raise my voice in anyway. I simply did my best and paid her in full. I'd told my mum about this incident at the time and spoken about how embarrassing it was for me and I decided not to take anything on credit from her anymore but when things get so bad to the point where I couldn't feed yourself, I had no other option but to return to her asking to take a few food items on credit which she gave me.
However, when my mum heard this, she got angry with me and asked me why I went back to the lady to take things from her again after the past incident. Before I could speak and explain, she sent me a 4 minutes long voice note on WhatsApp yelling and screaming at me and I kinda just snapped at that point and asked her to stop yelling at me. I told her she isn't here and doesn't know my situation at this moment or what I'm going through. I told her that I have almost never asked her for any kind of financial assistance because I know things aren't great with her either. I told her that all I asked her for was to please ask my sister to come online on WhatsApp and that was it instead she's yelling at me. She couldn't calm down for a minute to hear me speak or listen to me before making up her own conclusions and shouting at me.
I never ask my mum for money when I'm in dire situations because I know she doesn't have. Instead, I usually send her money occasionally when I can. After she and my dad had a very contentious separation and she moved cities, she'd get ill consistently with malaria and typhoid and I spent so much money each time getting her the needed treatment but she cannot give me a minute to hear me out?
Anyway, after I told her not to yell at me, she replied with "if you were here and said this to my face, I'd have slapped you very hard". I got even angrier when I read that and I told her that I was never going to ask her for any favours anymore. I told her that if I was dying, it was no longer any business of hers and that I was going to sort out my problems myself without ever involving her anymore and we haven't spoken since then. When I said that, she said I was lucky I wasn't in her presence at the moment else she would have slapped me and I didn't respond.
I texted my sister and told her what happened. I was so angry. I was and still am very depressed. What if I was at my wits end and her yelling at me was what drove me over the edge to end things? Would she be happy? If I decided to open up to her about my struggles, would she be able to take it? Why can she not calm down and hear me out for even a second? When she separated from my dad, 5 years ago, she left all 4 of my siblings with my dad and moved away to a different city. When I tried explaining how this action could be damaging to my siblings as they were so young then, she said she was going to lay a curse on me for speaking to her that way.
When I tell her the uncomfortable truth, she threatens to slap or curse me but she believes she's the moral authority and no one can ever point out her flaws.
Sometimes, in the past month, I have thought about contacting her but it's dawned on me that she hasn't made the conscious decision to contact me either so I refuse to reach out to her. The other day she asked a family friend to reach out to me and talk about somethings and I told them to tell her that if she wants us to speak again then she has to apologise for what she's done because I am so angry with her. That was almost 2 weeks ago.
This is the hill I'm willing to die on.

I (25M) and my mum (43F) have not spoken in over a month now. I'm a postgraduate student studying away from home in a different country.
The crux of the issue is this... my mother is very hot tempered and yells quite a bit when she's upset. She's an African parent afterall so it's something my siblings and I are used to. I love my mother but this past incident was my breaking point.
I have been going through a really tough time lately with school and a lack of funds to finish my research work and cover other expenses. I've attended a number of interviews but jobs are also very difficult to find here at the moment perhaps because I do not yet have my masters which I'm working towards or perhaps because I'm not a native of the country I'm studying in but for whatever reason, it's been difficult so when it gets really difficult to the point where I sometimes am not able to eat due to severe financial difficulties, I reach out to my dad to see of he can help me.
Things aren't great at home either. My siblings are quite younger than I am (the oldest of them is 17F then there's 15M, 13F and 11M). I recognise this and know that I am not a priority and in a perfect world, I wouldn't be asking my dad to help me with something like this but it's the situation I find myself in. When things get to the extreme, then and only then do I reach out to him to see if he can help me a bit which if he's able to, he does and I'm really grateful or if he's not able to, I understand because like I said, I've got younger siblings and I'm not the priority.
So, I tried reaching out to my dad but I did not have any call minutes to make international calls or even to him. I tried WhatsApp but he hasn't been active in months so I reached out to my sister (17F) schooling back in our country and asked her to please deliver the message for me but she too wasn't online so I texted my mum on WhatsApp and asked her to please call my sister and ask her to come online. She asked if everything was ok so I explained that I had a message that I needed my sister to pass on to my dad urgently. She reached out to my sister and later returned to ask me what the message was about. I told my mum how difficult things were for me. I told her I was in debt and broke to an incredible degree and I was asking my dad if he could be of some assistance to me.
She asked what debt I had and I told her about the lady who owns a little shop close to where I live and how she's given me some food items on credit for months now and I wanted to pay her something. When I said this, my mum got angry and started yelling at me. There was an incident in the past with this particular lady at the shop where she got a little aggressive with me about paying her what I owed and as embarrassing as the situation was back then, I didn't talk back to her or raise my voice in anyway. I simply did my best and paid her in full. I'd told my mum about this incident at the time and spoken about how embarrassing it was for me and I decided not to take anything on credit from her anymore but when things get so bad to the point where I couldn't feed yourself, I had no other option but to return to her asking to take a few food items on credit which she gave me.
However, when my mum heard this, she got angry with me and asked me why I went back to the lady to take things from her again after the past incident. Before I could speak and explain, she sent me a 4 minutes long voice note on WhatsApp yelling and screaming at me and I kinda just snapped at that point and asked her to stop yelling at me. I told her she isn't here and doesn't know my situation at this moment or what I'm going through. I told her that I have almost never asked her for any kind of financial assistance because I know things aren't great with her either. I told her that all I asked her for was to please ask my sister to come online on WhatsApp and that was it instead she's yelling at me. She couldn't calm down for a minute to hear me speak or listen to me before making up her own conclusions and shouting at me.
I never ask my mum for money when I'm in dire situations because I know she doesn't have. Instead, I usually send her money occasionally when I can. After she and my dad had a very contentious separation and she moved cities, she'd get ill consistently with malaria and typhoid and I spent so much money each time getting her the needed treatment but she cannot give me a minute to hear me out?
Anyway, after I told her not to yell at me, she replied with "if you were here and said this to my face, I'd have slapped you very hard". I got even angrier when I read that and I told her that I was never going to ask her for any favours anymore. I told her that if I was dying, it was no longer any business of hers and that I was going to sort out my problems myself without ever involving her anymore and we haven't spoken since then. When I said that, she said I was lucky I wasn't in her presence at the moment else she would have slapped me and I didn't respond.
I texted my sister and told her what happened. I was so angry. I was and still am very depressed. What if I was at my wits end and her yelling at me was what drove me over the edge to end things? Would she be happy? If I decided to open up to her about my struggles, would she be able to take it? Why can she not calm down and hear me out for even a second? When she separated from my dad, 5 years ago, she left all 4 of my siblings with my dad and moved away to a different city. When I tried explaining how this action could be damaging to my siblings as they were so young then, she said she was going to lay a curse on me for speaking to her that way.
When I tell her the uncomfortable truth, she threatens to slap or curse me but she believes she's the moral authority and no one can ever point out her flaws.
Sometimes, in the past month, I have thought about contacting her but it's dawned on me that she hasn't made the conscious decision to contact me either so I refuse to reach out to her. The other day she asked a family friend to reach out to me and talk about somethings and I told them to tell her that if she wants us to speak again then she has to apologise for what she's done because I am so angry with her. That was almost 2 weeks ago.
This is the hill I'm willing to die on. Is my anger justified or AITA?

I (25M) and my mum (43F) have not spoken in over a month now. I'm a postgraduate student studying away from home in a different country.
The crux of the issue is this... my mother is very hot tempered and yells quite a bit when she's upset. She's an African parent afterall so it's something my siblings and I are used to. I love my mother but this past incident was my breaking point.
I have been going through a really tough time lately with school and a lack of funds to finish my research work and cover other expenses. I've attended a number of interviews but jobs are also very difficult to find here at the moment perhaps because I do not yet have my masters which I'm working towards or perhaps because I'm not a native of the country I'm studying in but for whatever reason, it's been difficult so when it gets really difficult to the point where I sometimes am not able to eat due to severe financial difficulties, I reach out to my dad to see of he can help me.
Things aren't great at home either. My siblings are quite younger than I am (the oldest of them is 17F then there's 15M, 13F and 11M). I recognise this and know that I am not a priority and in a perfect world, I wouldn't be asking my dad to help me with something like this but it's the situation I find myself in. When things get to the extreme, then and only then do I reach out to him to see if he can help me a bit which if he's able to, he does and I'm really grateful or if he's not able to, I understand because like I said, I've got younger siblings and I'm not the priority.
So, I tried reaching out to my dad but I did not have any call minutes to make international calls or even to him. I tried WhatsApp but he hasn't been active in months so I reached out to my sister (17F) schooling back in our country and asked her to please deliver the message for me but she too wasn't online so I texted my mum on WhatsApp and asked her to please call my sister and ask her to come online. She asked if everything was ok so I explained that I had a message that I needed my sister to pass on to my dad urgently. She reached out to my sister and later returned to ask me what the message was about. I told my mum how difficult things were for me. I told her I was in debt and broke to an incredible degree and I was asking my dad if he could be of some assistance to me.
She asked what debt I had and I told her about the lady who owns a little shop close to where I live and how she's given me some food items on credit for months now and I wanted to pay her something. When I said this, my mum got angry and started yelling at me. There was an incident in the past with this particular lady at the shop where she got a little aggressive with me about paying her what I owed and as embarrassing as the situation was back then, I didn't talk back to her or raise my voice in anyway. I simply did my best and paid her in full. I'd told my mum about this incident at the time and spoken about how embarrassing it was for me and I decided not to take anything on credit from her anymore but when things get so bad to the point where I couldn't feed yourself, I had no other option but to return to her asking to take a few food items on credit which she gave me.
However, when my mum heard this, she got angry with me and asked me why I went back to the lady to take things from her again after the past incident. Before I could speak and explain, she sent me a 4 minutes long voice note on WhatsApp yelling and screaming at me and I kinda just snapped at that point and asked her to stop yelling at me. I told her she isn't here and doesn't know my situation at this moment or what I'm going through. I told her that I have almost never asked her for any kind of financial assistance because I know things aren't great with her either. I told her that all I asked her for was to please ask my sister to come online on WhatsApp and that was it instead she's yelling at me. She couldn't calm down for a minute to hear me speak or listen to me before making up her own conclusions and shouting at me.
I never ask my mum for money when I'm in dire situations because I know she doesn't have. Instead, I usually send her money occasionally when I can. After she and my dad had a very contentious separation and she moved cities, she'd get ill consistently with malaria and typhoid and I spent so much money each time getting her the needed treatment but she cannot give me a minute to hear me out?
Anyway, after I told her not to yell at me, she replied with "if you were here and said this to my face, I'd have slapped you very hard". I got even angrier when I read that and I told her that I was never going to ask her for any favours anymore. I told her that if I was dying, it was no longer any business of hers and that I was going to sort out my problems myself without ever involving her anymore and we haven't spoken since then. When I said that, she said I was lucky I wasn't in her presence at the moment else she would have slapped me and I didn't respond.
I texted my sister and told her what happened. I was so angry. I was and still am very depressed. What if I was at my wits end and her yelling at me was what drove me over the edge to end things? Would she be happy? If I decided to open up to her about my struggles, would she be able to take it? Why can she not calm down and hear me out for even a second? When she separated from my dad, 5 years ago, she left all 4 of my siblings with my dad and moved away to a different city. When I tried explaining how this action could be damaging to my siblings as they were so young then, she said she was going to lay a curse on me for speaking to her that way.
When I tell her the uncomfortable truth, she threatens to slap or curse me but she believes she's the moral authority and no one can ever point out her flaws.
Sometimes, in the past month, I have thought about contacting her but it's dawned on me that she hasn't made the conscious decision to contact me either so I refuse to reach out to her. The other day she asked a family friend to reach out to me and talk about somethings and I told them to tell her that if she wants us to speak again then she has to apologise for what she's done because I am so angry with her. That was almost 2 weeks ago.
This is the hill I'm willing to die on. Is my anger justified or AITA?

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I'm a lurker, not a poster here... I've only been able to keep aloe alive while my husband grows everything under the sun like wildfire! So, I'm shopping for some new things I want him to keep alive and us admire in our spare time <3 when I'm looking at house plants for some herbs and I overhear (see: hear a loud voice and nosy-mosy on to see a wild Karen/Ken) a guy in a full blown suit squealing at the nursery worker about how the African violets are going to die because they're too close to everything else, and the pollen is going to poison the delicate plants? The worker just kind of stood there and looked bored while this suit guys screamed about being a high ranking member, how he'll have them shut down for abuse of rare plants (??), and is waving his card around like a crazy dude. He flung a few around but I didn't catch one before I was dragged away by the green thumbed-spouse.
Is that nonsense and I found a weirdo? Is that real? Search engines took me to hobby folks and how to keep violets alive. I also can't find anything about pollen crossing around being bad for anything, I thought diverse pollen was good?